Ok so here is the story, I have a steady girl friend for the first time in my life, well not really but the others were kinda fridged. We have been going out for about 2 months....and omg she is so fucking hot, i swear she is the hottest girl in my grade. After the first night we made out i have not beat off since. And this is coming from a guy who used 2 beat off like a crazy mofo. I never feel like jerking it anymore. I tryed once and it dident even work!!!! I'm trying 2 figure out if it is because my brain is making me not do it because then i will b horny all the time and then i will have the balls 2 mac her up. Or mabye it will b so i have a massive load when i go off. I dont really know what is going on. Oh yea she said she wants 2 have a sleep over when my parents go out of town in 2 months. Should i just not even worry about wacking it off?? and just let out all my agression in 2 months.... I'm really confused and i would really appreciate what some of u have 2 say!
umm from my understanding, you should 'beat' off before she comes over, otherwise you might find she'll be left wondering! But I dunno, I'm not a boy, so can't help you there...
I had the same thing happen. Almost exactly. I had been jerking off 3 times a day, and then stopped altogether as soon as I started making out with this girl. A month into it, when we finally went to have sex.... I couldn't get it up. It was terribly embarrassing. So even though you don't want to do it as much, it might be a good idea to make yourself do it once in a while, just to keep the ol' sailor at the top of his game.
Now it seems your nerves is what's keeping you from doing it. You're putting too much pressure on yourself now. Just relax. If you feel like doing it, do it. If not, don't worry about it. If you still feel like you HAVE to or else, get a magazine or porno or fantasize about what it would be like to be with your girlfriend. I wouldn't really worry too much about it.
bro... you need to pre-game it... beat it a couple of times over the course of a couple hours before you get it on. raise the endurance bar a little... give her a work out. have faith young grasshopper... for I am wise, and have had entirely too much random sex with too many lovely, gorgeous women. surely...a curse....
