Wanna make a move on a girl........not sure how, like when I put my hand up her shirt am i suppsoed to like slip it under her bra or waht.......someone please help me so I dont look like such a douche please...... Just need advice on how to take stuff tot he next level after making out
Slower than that!! Inside her blouse/t-shirt first.. Just go slowly, but keep checking that you still have the hand you so trustingly let wander off on it's own...
Like Lanky said, go slooowly. Hand up her shirt, touching her stomach (softly but too lightly can be ticklish). Raise your hands up, and to the sides slightly so you're cupping her ribs. Less likely to make her anxious if you enjoy touching all her skin, not just her breasts. Play with her breasts when you're both comfy, but don't go under the bra yet, just squeeze, rub, whatever kind of touch she likes (Every woman is different in what kinds of touch they like on their breasts). The next time you guys get together, then you go under her bra Take it slow, make sure you aren't pushing her into anything she isn't ready for
Thanks for rescuing me Ihmurria! Where were you 25 years ago??????? Hehe... Hope he doesn't go all mechanical on her, like he's following instructions or something.. I remember rehearsing stuff like that (with myself!), and picking up some strange impressions!
Ummm, not even a gleam in my mom's eye? Yeah, it's one of those things that should flow naturally, organically.... something that's unique to the people involved and their comfort levels at the time but the first time round, it's best if it's all taken slowly, and with care/love. Doing it just because you wanna feel some tits is, well, not the point. It should be for her pleasure too, not anything that would make her uncomfortable
I'm sure there's something somewhere about it being a journey, not the destination, and advice like that... I'm kinda entranced by the innocence of these sorts of stories/questions. Maybe a cure for nerves should be available huh!?!
