Humiliation Fetish

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by shy_violet, Apr 14, 2006.

  1. shy_violet

    shy_violet Member

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    I have a humiliation fetish that I would like for my boyfriend to act out. The problem is that I am uncomfortable telling him because both of his reaction, and the fact that he might find it to be against his morals. I am on the larger side and I would enjoy my boyfriend making mention of that during sexual encounters. I would like for him to do things such as poke and pinch me gently. During intercourse, I want him to say things like, "My little chubby girl". How do I go about telling him this and having him respond in a positive manner?
     
  2. gaz or jazz

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    tell him straight , i mean if youre fucking each other what does it matter, you may freak him out for a while but he will come round,ask him what his fetish is and meet him half way you could open whole new areas of sexual exploration
     
  3. RimmyDelicious

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    ask him dirty talk questions while your fucking, like 'oh you loving fucking fat chicks, don't you, you filthy motherfucker' etc..LMAO
     
  4. shy_violet

    shy_violet Member

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    I am not sure how to go about bringing this subject matter to the table. I cannot flat out say, "call me your chubby girl and tease me about it".
     
  5. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    well, if your telling us everything, what you are asking doesn't sound that shocking, its hardly tie me up and whip me is it?
    do you talk about sex at all, cause you could just say that you want to put some time aside to do this, or like others have said, just bring it up in sex.
    have you talked about your weight before at all in your relationship, do you know how he feels about it, this is a good starting point, but be prepared for him saying that he might like you to loose a few pounds (worse case senario)
    S
     
  6. shy_violet

    shy_violet Member

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    The issue is that, every single time I refer to myself as fat, he tells me to knock it off. This weekend he has promised me that he will allow me to try anything new and kinky that I desired. I am still at a loss for words than flat out stating that I want him to humiliate me during sex.
     
  7. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    You have to ask for what you want in bed, your partner does not read minds. Somehow, you wish for your boyfriend to just magically figure out your kink and respond positively. The reality is, while this isn't anything too crazy, most men would NEVER consider calling a woman chubby or fat during sex. So, if you want this to happen, you need to make it happen. Tell him what you want, and don't want, be honest, straightforward and it'll be over before you know it.
     
  8. theblackrose

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    thats fucking hot...youre fucking hot
     
  9. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    I've got a humiliation fetish as well.

    I like to dominate, such making a chick gag on my cock and slapping her with it in her face, but I also like for a girl to sit directly on my face and make me lick her asshole or let her rub her feet in my face and make me lick between her toes and suck them and talk dirty to me. Tell me I'm her slave and she's a slut, I am only worthy of licking her ass, cleaning her pussy and feet...etc...etc...etc...

    FUN FUN FUN!

    I'm a Jack of All Sex Trades. ;)
     
  10. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Damn, Libertine! Your posts always make me so hot!:& I'd gag on your cock, anytime!:p
     
  11. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    We DO think a lot a like, don't we?

    Just think...if we had ever hooked up we may not come apart. ;)

    It would like FUCK CENTRAL.
     
  12. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    If two sexually charged folks like you and I ever hooked up, the world just might implode. Hell of a way to go, though...:p
     
  13. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    Indeed.
     
  14. Hippievixen

    Hippievixen Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I'll fight you for it, Bella.

    *gigggles and smack Bella with a pillow*
     
  15. theblackrose

    theblackrose Member

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    that makes two of us
     
  16. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    No need to fight, I'll take the both of you sexy ladies!!
     
  17. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Awwwww, I was looking forward to sexy pillow fight with Hippievixen. You just never know what a pillow fight can lead to...:X
     
  18. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    In that case, be my guest.
     
  19. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    YAY! Winner of the pillow fight gets to be on top of Libertine first!:p
     
  20. Libertine

    Libertine Guru of Hedonopia

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    That would make ME the REAL winner! ;)
     

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