Well im a virgin, but i've tried having sex with my girlfriend a couple times now. But i always seem to not be able to get an errection right before we're about to have sex. I know i CAN get errections because i get them randomly and i know she knows it too. But i dont know what happens right before its about to happen. I'm young too, so i dont know what the hell is wrong with me. Its pretty embarrasing for me, especially it happening every time. A little help?
I dont know, its like my penis has a mind of its own. It works when it wants to work. And i've never had oral sex, but i have had "hand jobs" if that helps?
Its probably all nerves Im guess your pretty excited, maybe even scared, Dont worry its pretty normal to feel that way. Relax get to it.. somethen somethen, how ever the song gose How old are you anwyas?
Ari is right. I don't think you're ready yet. But when you are, don't forget Condoms!!! If you ain't ready for sex you aren't ready for a child.
I'd rather not say how old i am, lol. But it just makes me depressed knowing i cant even please her when she's "in the mood".
As some mentioned it could just be anxiety that it is your first time. Perhaps removing the expectation would help you and instead just trying to let it happen when it does would be a benefit. If you try doing that and you still encounter the same result, perhaps you should see a doctor about this as there can be many reasons why an erection does not last, that are medical. Many times people are not comfortable seeking medical attention for this as we all think is should be so natural. That is not always the case and it should be checked by a professional. As far as the pleasure of your partner, there are many ways to do so without actual penetration. If she and you are open with each other you will find ways to have mutual pleasure without intercourse, until such a time as you can do so.
