if u guys remmber, i made a psot a while ago abut my bf, and him gettng rl moody aftre a nigth out w/ a bunch of hsi freinds well, it happend again. we'd been dting for nrly 3 months now, thsi is teh 2nd tme it hppnd, same situatio - hanging w/ his freinds and hm getting all moody, grmpy, looking for evdence of ppl against him. So... do i jsut stop goig out w/ him n his freinds, to avd this? is tehre any way 2 tell him taht smarten up w/out it looking like a personal attck? He takes thngs like that very personally whenever i've tried 2 talk 2 him about things. *sigh*
why are u with him again?? Can you name a couple of things that prove he is a reliable, trustworthy, and caring guy?
In all honesty, if he is already acting like this, then chances are he's probably going to continue this behavior. And remember that no one can make someone change, they have to want it for theirselves.... if he doesn't recognize he has a problem then I doubt he is ready to change.
Gee Annie, that's some damn useful advice. Because obviously whether or not i bother to chekck my spelling is going t affect everything else inmy life. Maybe if you weren't such a stuck up bitch you wouldn't worry about the silly little things in life like spelling and actually offer a helping hand when someone has a problem, or at least learn to shut the hell up when you have nothing positive to offer. As for those of you who were nice enought to take my q seriously, thanks for all yoyur replies, i do apprciate it. i need to get off myass and talk to him seriousl about the things that are bothering me, not just bottle this stuff up and let it fester for days/wekks/however long
Actually spelling is pretty important...especially if you plan on going to college. And as far as me being a stuck up bitch. I give you credit, you can read exactly how people are over the internet. What's your secret??? If you weren't so anal retentive, then maybe you would have taken it as a joke instead of so seriously. And if you really think everyone is going take everything anyone says seriously on this site, you have a lot to learn. Good luck!
