Ok heres the story, i had been dating my girlfriend for 3 years, and i love her more than anything. she left me a bout a week ago. well her cousin told me that her mom(my girlfriends) didnt want me to talk to or date her. i dont know if its true, because i have talked to her a little, and have been trying to make it back the way it was. A few hours ago i called her mom, and asked if i could meet her somewhere tommorow and talk about all this. i have been up for days without eating much and i really want to get things back the way they were. i thought i could get over this, then i realized i love her more than i thought. i dont know if i am actually making it worse or what. i was wondering if anyone thought that by talking to her mom would be a good idea, and if not/so some advice on what to do next. i miss her so much right now its driving me crazy.
So you called her mum and ? Your story doesn't quite make sense and it seems that she might have left for a very good reason that you're leaving out. If anything it shows she respects her mum enough to take her advice. I'm assuming your gf is one good, levelheaded chica. So maybe you should be asking yourself if what you really did is worth her going back to you for. Only you know. All the best.
oh lol she left me because i had an episode, and she still kinda wants to be with me, but im not sure if her mom wants her to be, so im asking if its a good idea to try and talk to her mom. and yea im going to get up tommorow and try and think about it.My girlfriend said she just wants to take a break for a while, and im fine with that, i just want her mom to like me again
Ah. Well, maybe lie low for awhile? Whatever this episode was, hopefully you've learned from it and you may gain back the trust of both your girlfriend and her guardian (mum). You seem to care a lot about what her mother thinks and that, imo, shows some responsibility. I think her mother might appreciate you speaking to her directly but you might want to talk to your girlfriend about it first. Though it's your call, and it depends how you go about it. All the best.
an episode, huh? if you scared your girlfriend, and now you are acting all obsessive about her, it might be best for her to stay far far away from you. You sound downright frightening to me. Are you sure this is really about love? Or is it about needing her, or some pitiful attempt to have some control in your life? to answer your original question, yes, you probably are making it worse. Chill. Don't call. Carry on with your life because the world isn't going to stop turning just because you are upset. Find something to do to occupy your mind and your time, exercise, a hobby, or something.
woah lol, i had an episode, as in im bipolar, as in i was really depressed for a while, and she got tired of me not talking much, and my girlfriend needed me, and i wasnt there. im not trying to be like that at all lol, i just want things to be happy like they were before. yea my girlfriend thought it was a good idea to talk to her mom, and she said she just wants to take a break for a while. (we did some talking last night) well i have to get in the shower, im going for a job interveiw, then im going to meet her mom at the park. thanks
oh yea, im not trying to be obsessive, i just want to be happy again, and i want us to be happy again.
