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What is not your type of person to date

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bellfire01, Apr 1, 2006.

  1. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    If you think everyone is your type then I'd love to meet you. I bet the free clinic would also lol. (teasing)


    This question is for men and ladies. I'd like to know what your type of person would you not date. It could be any type and it's ok to be choosy. (If you choose everyone then there would be no one left for me lol.)

    I'm not into guys over 60 as far as dating goes. I feel like I can love an older man but I draw the line at 60 lol.

    I don't want a man that doesn't like to talk. I don't want a lady. I don't care if he does think it makes things more exciting, it's not gonna happen. I don't like guys that don't like animals. I don't want a guy that talks about his job all day and all night. I don't want a guy that thinks when he's not working than he should be sleeping. I don't want a guy that plays gameboy all day and all night and never wants to go out for fun. I don't want a guy that won't let me order off the menu. I don't want a guy that makes me feel that the price of the meal covers everything. I have a few more but Death gets tired or reading easily lol. ;)
     
  2. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    I don't want a drug addict or alcholic

    I don't want a drug dealer

    I don't want someone to whom money is everything

    I don't want someone who thinks that muscles are more important than brains

    I don't want someone who doesn't make me feel appreciated

    I don't want someone who doesn't care if I'm sick or down or tired

    I don't want someone who I feel like I can't be myself around

    I don't want someone who won't listen to me

    i don't want someone who can't carry his end of the conversation/can't have an original thought

    I don't want a guy who spends more time on his appearance than I do!
     
  3. Boogabaah

    Boogabaah I am not here

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    i don't like pretty boys..

    i might not be all super girly.. but i don't want a man thats more of a woman than me
     
  4. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I don't want a weight watcher. I don't want a guy that lets his family talk to me any kind of way. I don't want a guy a date to talk about me in another language to his friends and family while I'm in or out of the room. I don't want a guy that hits me. I don't want a guy that goes off and starts screaming at me. (I don't mean in the Jackie Gleason way I mean in the Ray Liota way.)
     
  5. jerry420

    jerry420 Doctor of everything Lifetime Supporter

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    ray liota...understood,
    i just want to be able to be myself and accepted...plus no mental midgets or anyone younger than me by more than 2 years...and she has to have a great laugh...there are other things...
     
  6. fuzz_acid_flowers

    fuzz_acid_flowers Aqueou§ Transmi§§ion

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    i dont want someone who is self-centered and close-minded
     
  7. happyhippyflower

    happyhippyflower Sucker Punch

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    I don't want someone that gives it up once a month after a few years into the relationship. I guess that excludes every goddamn female in the world huh?
     
  8. interval_illusion

    interval_illusion Deceased

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    someone that reads things they arent supposed to read.
     
  9. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I look at people as individuals so there's not a lot of deal breakers for me...the only ones are; alchoholism (not partying but lying about how much they're drinking or doing it excessivley almost everynight or getting voilent or abusive during it), drinking is the main thing for me I'm scared to death of alchoholics becaise of my dad and a past relationship, drug dealing, cheating, not affectionate, men who refuse to baby me, blowjob obsessers (I love to give head just not a million times a day or for ever and a day), men who treat their mothers or sisters poorly, men who do not like kids or babies, men who cut me down, oh and I HATE YELLERS that's right up there with alchoholics I freak if I get yelled by any man because besides romantic relationships I've never had a man yell at me. Men on my maternal side are really calm
     
  10. Dizzy Man

    Dizzy Man Member

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    Smokers
     
  11. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    i dont like "ghetto" girls... ya know the hoochies that gotta wear tons of make up and fix their hair all like they are in some rap video... i dont like alcoholics... or drug addicts... close minded girls... racists... i dont like materialistic women... women who worry all the time... i dont like girls that cant take a joke...
     
  12. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I don't like identy guy. (Guys that approach you and take a look at what you llok like physically and decide: I can or have to talk to her like whatever steryotype is going on in my head. Prime example. If you are a guy and you see a girl of Latin heritage then you'd say. What up sweet thang. How is Mommasita?
     
  13. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Hey, hey, hey now...I've been with my hubby nearly 10 years and we're still at it at the least twice a week!
     
  14. themnax

    themnax Senior Member

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    i would prefer to avoid the aggressively austentatious, aggressively conventional, or aggressively aggressive.

    although since i'm already spoken for the point is kind of moot. never much went in for the formality of the concept of dating either for that matter. met my mate working on shaired projects.

    =^^=
    .../\...
     
  15. Dizzy Man

    Dizzy Man Member

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    Do any guys actually do that? I mean, treat girls differently based on their appearance?

    I'd never even contemplated it. I'd hope I'm in the majority of men!? Then again, I live in the UK and we don't really have racial stereotypes here; only 'regional' stereotypes.
     
  16. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    Unfortuantely in the states they do. Yes, I've noticed that about the UK. (I watch Eastenders.) There is a Black doctor on there that is going with a White lady and everyone keeps trying to talk him out of it because they think he's too good for her. I don't know about everywhere but I've seen guys do that sort of thing here in the states. There this one guy that was white that walked up to this girl he thought was Blackand started saying. Yo mamma wut up wit chu? She looked starteled for a second or two and turned to him and started speaking in French. lol
     
  17. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    I have an almost unreachable standard: she's got to be a blast at parties but at the same time able to converse about the ins and outs of Kant or Hume, at least as good looking as I am, athletic, self-confident, original, etc.

    Haven't been so succesful yet, unsuprisingly.
     
  18. Dustinthewind

    Dustinthewind woopdee fucking doo

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    its been a really long time since i have actually dated. wow, way to long. but anyways

    i dont like control freaks, liars, cheaters, looks dont really matter because i am not the most skinniest person or miss america type person.

    they would have to realize that my kids are my life and that they are part of the package, if not........see ya, wouldnt wanna be ya!

    any traits of my girl's father would not be appreciated at all.
     
  19. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    i wouldnt want to date someone who is like me because thats too much obnoxiousness(im aware that is not a word)
    i need someone thats not exactly the opposite of me but have some opposite qualities of what i have cause that always seems to balace things out...imo
     
  20. strgchz

    strgchz Member

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    I would not want to date a girl that did meth, or gobbled up oxys like theres no tommorow.
     
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