Quite recently, I have been seeing couples left and right with them holding hands, making out, and doing all of that coupley shit. I guess this is just me saying that I think it is bullshit and stupid seeing all these happy people around me and trying to make a single me feel like a sad case because I don't care about someone, and someone doesn't care about me. They come up to me and give me this pity shit trying to fix me up with one of their lame friends that I never was interested in initially. I try my best to meet new girls and get to know them, and possibly date them. Every one of my ventures have come up empty with a partner that doesn't care, or one that doesn't see on the same level as me, or one that has an std. I have been trying at this stupid game for too long and I have been on a losing streak for years, only to walk away with two very short lived relationships. Why can something so easy be so hard? I have never understood this, and it has sent me into a self-esteem downward spiral, making my problem worse, getting even more closed up to girls and antisocial... I'm just so sick of seeing my happy friends and random people giving me shit, thats all, and everywhere I go, I can never find what I'm looking for even though people say that I'm a cool and good looking guy. Why then is it so hard? Am I just the creepy good looking cool guy in the corner or something? FUCK
you are only 20 years old. The best is still to come. Being in a relationship is not the biggest achievement. I am 24, tons of guys hit on me, but I just do not see someone I could really care about. I ve been in a relationship once for all the wrong reasons - because i thought i needed one, because everybody else was, and i regretted it. May be it is better to be single than in a crappy relationship. It takes time to meet someone special. And the thing about couples (holding hands, making out,etc).... do not believe everything you see. That relationship that I had for all the wrong reasons....when i went out with a guy , he would be all over me, kissing, hugging, etc..especially in front of his friends...but he would be more distant when we were alone. So, when we broke up , he said he was doing it to make his friends jealous...
Truly, guy...Just wait! The moment I stopped looking and decided I'd be single the rest of my days and should just learn to deal with it, Mr. Right walked into my life and gave me a big hug. Stop being bitter, smile at all of those happy couples, wish them the best, and just wait. It will happen.
No, DON'T wait. Live your life. You're looking too hard (also). People sense this. And your negativity not only brings people down, there's no way in heck you'll attract the kind of person you may be interested in. Pull yourself together and for god's sake, toss out the kleenexes.
I feel exactly the same as you do. -> does it make you feel better? Probably not I don't remember the last time i met a guy i could talk to normally. I don't remember when a guy understood me and saw thing in the same way i do... I honestly doubt that there is someone that i will love.... Did it make you feel better? Man, I feel really shitty now. Lower your standards, and you will find someone. Or wait.
I don't know what I think about relationships. I've had a similar past as you in terms of dating and have decided for the moment to lay back an take interest in other things. It still sucks and I also get sick of seeing couples all over each other in public but it's better to have something filling your time than wishing it away.
I recently developed a large red rash around my testicles. - bet you wanted to know that.But no seriously - it's ecsthma and it's a psychosamatic physical reaction to the way women have been treating me recently.The last two girls just wanted me for sex - which normally would be ok - but thats not what I was after.They crushed my faith in humanity to such an extent that I am totally off relationships for a while.But it's just as well cos it gives me time to re-invent myself as a talented,wealthy entrepreneur.I have to just keep laughing at my own placid stupidity - its the only way.
yeah, happy couples are like born again christians, i swear. they've got something that really makes them happy, and they wanna see everyone else feeling the same way. makes them meddle. try to be patient with them. after all, they just want you to feel as good as they do, it's honestly them just trying to be good to you, but they don't understand that you want them to fuck off and leave you alone about it. i feel your pain, having been there once myself.
I know the feeling. Whenever I am at college, if a beautiful, fit girl is having a laugh with a guy, I feel jealous and bitter, because they are having a laugh, and I am just sat there being the unhappy person I am.
