What do you do about a girl who doesn't like giving head?

I'm involved with a girl and she's very sexual. But she doesn't like giving head. Should I be annoyed about this or just be happy that she really likes to fuck a lot?

 

Do you give her head?

 

If you don't like that she doesn't like it, and it's that important to you...then maybe you should find someone else

 

You can't force it on someone who just doesn't want to do it. There are other ways to get off. Don't fret!

Has she blatantly told you she won't do it, or has she just not done it yet?

 

I LOVE giving her head.

 

I think she hasn't had much experience in it, it was more "I don't like the idea..." or "the idea doesn't turn me on" so who knows.

 

Oh, well I think with positive reinforcement, you could get her into it. Just don't come at her like it is expected of her. Even if you go down on her. It's something she has to be comfortable with.

Is it possible she's afraid to get blasted in the mouth?

 

I *think* she's one of those girls who doesn't like cum... like she said she loves feeling it inside her, but not outside her... which is hard for me because I love the idea of cumming on her. But I can definetely work on that because I'm a fairly nice guy and not a wanker lol

 

Wow... that is so foreign to me. I wanna be swimming in it!!!

But just be respectful to her. I know you are and will be. Different strokes... (no pun intended...)

 

I love that visual too! I think I have a fetish...

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There's still time to change her mind. I wasn't big into the idea of giving head (and I'm still not too keen on the idea of getting "blasted" in the mouth, lol), but I really kind of enjoy it now. ...Though I'm really not sure what changed my mind. Perhaps the whole, "if you don't, I won't" argument...lol. Worked for me, but I don't really suggest it, cuz as most people put it, I've got a vagina, but I'm certainly not like other females.

 

I spent some productive time once, explaining to a friend - later a dear g/f - that a penis which has been showered, tucked away, and has had nothing except sterile water pumped through it is far cleeaner than a mouth and hands exposed to the elements, absorbing all varieties of germs and viruses. That the lifegiving genes which can also be pumped through it were designed for reception in a far more sensitive part of her body than a dirtier than a dog's mouth, mouth. And that I loved her anyway she wanted me - as long as I could work my lips and tongue over and into the aforementioned recepticle to the point of her complete satisfaction. She Came Around in record time. So as for the analytical approach - it worked with her!
The short answer: get another girlfriend.

 

Will she fuck doggie style? If she won't then maybe she's got degradation/control issues. Some women see giving oral as a degrading act. If that's her problem then the only thing to do to over come that is trust and reassurance that giving head doesn't make you a dirty slut.

 

you either don't worry about it and date her, just put up with how she is

or you stop seeing her and find a new girlfriend


You can't change people

 

some women have reasons for not liking it. Myself, my jaw gets stuck open when I give head. It's painful, and abit worrying ("oh god.. what if I can't get it closed??!") I feel stupid, and very unattractive my my jaw hanging open, and the loud "snap" that sounds as my jaw unlocks can't be all that stimulating either.

So, my husband doesn't get head as much as he would like. He understands the reason for it though, and now just considers himself really lucky when he does get it.

 

Your husband's dick is so big that your jaw pops out of place?

 

You have to use your tongue!!! I can't do much with it in my mouth, so I am a tongue user.

 

My jaw pops out of place pretty much every time I give head. So long as my guy knows I need to pull back and fully close my mouth so it pops back into place, it's not really a problem. Then again, I've never had a problem getting it back into place, and it only hurts (as opposed to just being uncomfortable) if it's out of place for a significantly long time (a few minutes at least)

 

whats wrong with a chic that dont like givin head..

maybe she just dont wanna give you head..
MMMMMM

I dont like doin it to EVERY guys in the world in fact Ive only done it to one, although lately Ive been wantin to try again on someone else