me and b/f tried anal for the first time last night. i liked it, and so did he. he went really slow, so it didnt hurt but we we didnt use any like proper lube like ky jelly or anything...i jus used my spit and a lubricated condom and st.ives swiss vanilla lotion(hehe). but uh, is that okay? i mean spit or like vanilla lotion is okay to use? it wont cause like infections? i mean, i feel fine today so, ??? thanks just wondering.
lol.. the first time i had anal sex, we didn't have any lube either - and i wasn't about to let him try it with no lube, so he searched around my friend's house and all he could find was a bottle of this coconut scented body lotion.. we actually used it a couple of times before we finally went out and bought some lube.. but now every time i smell coconut sented stuff, i immediately think of anal sex
haha funny story about the coconut! haha after using the vanilla stuff a few times, maybe when everytime i smell vanila stuff, ill imediately think of anal sex hahaha. so i guess using lotion is okay, but should invest in some lube, lube is proly better, yeah?
lol.. yeah, lube is better.. it's a different sensation than the lotion.. i can't really describe it we use pure platinum.. i like it - but then again, i dont really have a basis for comparison because it's the only lube i've ever used
any lotion/ cream that contains fatty components might break a condom. not just petroleum based ones!!!
that st ives is delicious but I am pretty sure it could cause irritation due to the perfume. but when you're in a bind ... lol.
When we've been drinking, my girl lets me get away with just using spit. When we are sober and relaxed, I usually use KY Jelly. Both ways it's great for both of us. Until I started seeing her, I never knew a woman could have an orgasm from anal sex. Her anal orgasms are totally different from the flopping around and squeeling of a vaginal or clitoral orgasm. Anal, she just seems to have slight tremors through her whole body and then she doesn't move for about ten minutes, and then the normal weakness afterwards.
Proberly not the best idea using anything else apart from things thatare ok to be used down there!!! It can upset the chemical balance and things like that - buy some lube for when you wanna do it!!!!
Try anal using pleasure lubes (like the ones containing menthol...), believe me you'll feel amazing sensations up to your arse! I had anal sex b4 with normal lube and it wasnt the same....
