i'm a virgin... does it hurt the first time?

did it hurt the next few times after the first?

 

Yes, it does hurt the first time, but it's a pleasurable kind of hurt IMHO. My husband was and is the only person I've ever had sex with, but I think he did an awesome job at making me feel just heavenly. I actually had multiple orgasms the very first night we made love. Course, I couldn't walk right for a few days afterwards.

Believe me, the pain is nothing like laboring 3 children. Now that's some pain.

Have fun, and be safe.

Peace.

 

Oh, and I remember being sore for a while until I got used to things, but that's probably because I was like a little wildcat and kept wanting to do it, like "oh, so this is what it's like!". Even my husband (we weren't married yet at the time I lost my virginity to him though) told me that I needed to take a break.

 

You should wait til you are married and be one of the few good girls left her!

 

Losing your virginity does hurt. However it does depend. You are stretching a fairly small hole for something larger to fit. Also, if your hymen is still intact, it's going to hurt very badly. I've heard tell that it's quite painful to have that hymen broken.
However, I wouldn't know if breaking it during sex would be painful. I broke my own hymen when I was 14, using a tampon. Apparently, that is quite an easy way to break it. And I can say that it hurt really bad. I screamed bloody murder and started to cry. I had a hard time walking for about an hour. But then I took a pain killer and all was fine. Good thing I was the only one home. :&

 

I think its a good idea to condition your hole like I conditioned my ass hole. Cucumbers work well! Now I can accomadate almost anything!

 

I remember my first time i was almost 19..
It was painful, bloody, and fast..

 

Just make sure it is an intimate situation with someone who cares about you. That way he can go slow, or even stop if it hurts too bad. If you are losing it for the hell of it by hooking up, chances are it will be rougher and hurt more. I think all sex should be meaningful and not regretted, but especially the first time. Don't rush yourself.

 

It hurt like hell for my girlfriend for the first time It actually hurt for the first few times. The best advise I can give is use lube and go slow. Before you actually have sex though, make sure to have lotsa foreplay with good use of fingers and get that thing open as wide as it'll go ... sorry to be so blunt but there's no better way to word it!

 

wow, I guess I'm weird because it didn't hurt at all the first time. Hell, it hurt more later, when I wasn't as moist as then. Being lubed up/really wet helps so very very much. Have him finger you (foreplay is a must afterall) to get you a bit more used to having something inside of you. Have you ever masturbated by inserting something into yourself (not necessarily a dildo, I know I had some makeshift type ones when i was younger like hairbrush handles). Maybe that helped me not hurt. You have to want to have sex too... just doing it because he's pressuring you or because you want to just not be a virgin (ie be cool) isn't gonna turn you on enough to find the experience pleasurable.

 

YEA iwould be happy to .i promis to be good for you .and i knowi would be happy lol kjhippielove88.PEACE.

 

it didnt hurt me at all

 

my old roommate said she happened to be making out naked with her bf and realized a few minutes into it that he was inside of her. she hadn't felt a thing. thank God my guy is big enough that i felt it! i had the opposite experience-i had taken a vicodin and downed a few shots of whiskey (blech!!!) and it still hurt like hell. must be something wrong with me because it hurt about the first six times i did it