So my girl and I have been talking a lot about our sexual fantasies and desires. About discovering what we like and what we don't about what we don't know about yet (things like power play, anal sex, MMF, FFM, roleplaying, etc etc). Me, im 22 and the hormones are raging- I'm ready to go! I dunno man I just want to get freaky and see how it goes... she always makes the statement to let things happen naturally- and for me, taking a little initiative in exploring my own sexual being is natural! I don't want to pressure her of course, so i will continue to wait for the 'right' moments... but it does kinda suck cuz i would pleasure her however she wanted. =( oh well just venting I guess. thx for your time. How about you tell me stories of you exploring your own sexuality and the kinky things you learned you liked (or not) along the way. Anyone into polyamory? Just curious... as i told another friend, we're all freaky, half of us just can't admit it and the other half doesnt know how freaky they are yet! lol - yogi4peace
yes, "happen naturally" means taking some initiative in bed...for me anyway. just start trying things out! i never knew i was into a LOT of things until my bf, or i, would try them sort of unexpectedly in bed, and i've learned i like a lot of things and some are situational... though i don't think i've tried anything i just did not like.. yet. i'm sure there are some, but most that i'm not interested in i haven't done yet.