i just found something out. it may sound kind of weird, but a few nights ago me and my b/f were having some rough sex and i told him to tottaly take control and fuck me, and he did...he fucked me the way he wanted to, was rough on me, slapped me on my face and such, and talked to me in a rude way in bed. but i must admitt, it turned me on. i never knew i wud like that kind of stuff. and its weird because hes such the sweetest guy, so it kind of turned me on that he letted go and did something differnet. of course,we dont do this ALL the time, we only do this if we are in the "fucking" mood, not in the 'lovey dovey lets make looove' mood. i am surpirzed at myself for atualy getting turned on even more by him doing those kind of things. does anyone else like this sort of thing too? just curious on answers and/or opinons.
ooph, I like it rough sometimes, but I can't handle getting hit in the face/head. That's not play anymore, that turns into genuine disrespect, that to me translates into potentially abusive (I realize that it isnt' for you, but ot me, someone slapping me in the face would seem like a step towards abusive, assuming they know that it's a no-no for me)
same here I like it rough sometimes but wouldn't be able to take that it would strike me as odd and not in a good way
wel, i dunno i can. i guess its because we have a good understanding , i mean we've been togehter for a while now, and we both know we love eachother and trust eachother. and we arent afraid to communicate about u know, sexual things. but i mean shit, if i was having sex with a guy i barely knew and didnt trust and he pulled that shit on me, id be pissed and scared haha. but its just interesting to hear why some girls like this stuff, and some dont.
i like it rough and ive been slapped in the face before and had my hair pulled and stuff but it can go too far sometimes so you need to be with someone u really trust to have that ontrol over you
That sounds really hot... I'm pretty sure I would really enjoy that if our adoration and trust was impeccable. And like Ihmurra said, not on the head.
I love getting my hair pulled, and a lot of the rough/semi-rough stuff that can accompany that.... but I'm really weird about getting hit on the head/face or having stuff near my eyes, it freaks me out, it makes me just shut down. Most women in my family are that way, ya can't even have a pillow fight and hit them in the head softly with the pillow (or me) without someone getting upset
getting rough is always really nice, and i can see why it can be arousing when it feels as though its something completely out of the ordinary. I had a boyfriend with whom i got to experiment a lot and I have very vivid memories of those rough encounters.
it's strange that i like it rough like that with my past "Experiences" but it's too damn amazing when it is
Likewise. All my close friends know not to hit or bat me on the head. What's really interesting, though, is that at the beginning of the relationship between my ex and me, he gave me a head massage, and it, quite literally, felt orgasmic not only throughout my head, but also in the typical orgasm-areas. I have a strange body. In a good way~
this gal loves it... my guy has never just straight up bitch slapped me, but it just sounds soooo hot. *gigggles*
