Hi... My girlfriend and i reciently started getting intimate... and we have tried to have sex a couple of times, but failed miserably... The thing is, she's a virgin. and eventhough i've tried to use lubrication, i can't seem to enter her. It seems like she has a really small vagina and even with the lubrication, its not enough for me to enter. I'm sure if i were to push realllllllly hard, then i might be able to, but it seems like that's not the most appropriate way to do so. since she was constantly in a lot of pain... Therefore, now the question that i have is. is there a way to stretch out her vagina, or a lubrication that works better than ky jelly? I'm kind of stuck here guys. any help or suggestions will be great. Thanks
This happened to me and my husband. It took us upwards of three months of attempting before it went right. How we worked around it in the beginning is he would start with fingers, and then only slip the head in until I eventually got comfortable with that. Then over time I became more used to it, and now we can do it as long as I am very wet or with lubrication. Use lots of lube and go SLOW. There are other ways to get off in the meantime. Just be patient, and let her get used to it slowly, a little bit at a time. Just ramming it in will be traumatizing... Maybe try with a smaller vibe? The key is to get her comfortable, and used to the size of what is going into her. She can adjust to it, but she must be comfortable and wet.
I have a friend of mine who I can genuinely say was one of the tightest I have ever been with and she said that she had a "big" guy not long ago...it wasn't a problem, she just needed to have lots of oral (to the brink of orgasm) and lots of lube applied...then he slid in real slow and she rubbed herself while he was going in...she managed to have a pretty tremendous orgasm...
thanks guys... it seems like this will always be an on going work huh? heh not that i mind long foreplays and getting her all wet.. but no quickies once in a while's gonna hurt =P
