I cant talk to gurls.

Whenever I talk to a girl my mind goes blank and I can barely ever keep a conversation going. I have no clue what to say or how to describe my feeling about it. Whenever I get into a relationship I ruin it because I dont know how to talk to them and it makes me feel like an idiot.

 

You'll grow out of it.

 

I used to have that a few years ago.

I can talk to the opposite sex (or anyone, really) with confidence but only when I am keeping myself at a distance or putting on a persona.

 

you aren't alone



probably, fear of intimacy and rejection.

 

well imagine they are goats.

 

....or you, ha j/k but ya if I imagine goats Ill like...not get turned on lol

 

The intamacy thing Im not really worried out, the rejection is the role that is causing some problems.

 

Don't be afraid of rejection. Girls are just as afraid of rejection as guys are. If you like a girl, just go for it. Be fearless, because that's really sexy.

 

yea, being confident is probably the most sexy thing you can do. i once dated a guy simply because he was so confident- i just had to get to know what the 'big deal' about him was that made him so happy with himself. turns out hes just F.O.S but thats besides the point.

 

Easy said then done.

 

yeah, confidence is by far the most important thing. you just have to keep "practicing". you'll eventually see there is nothing to be afraid of. even if you get rejected, chances are it will change nothing between you, at least in my experiance. the nice girls will show you there not interested in you in a nice way. if you don't try at all, you have zero chance for anything happening. if you try, you at least have the chance of SOMETHING happening.

 

This has alot to do with the girl not being your type. However, If you are like blank right after saying hello, then you are most likely trying to hard to make that romantic movie approach or pickup line.

Just be yourself don't try to impress too much...

 

ya Imma have to work on that stuff. But hey Im trying so it should work out ok. And if not, well I can always drink or sumthing lolz.

 

Fear of rejection is the lamest excuse in the books.

Solution: Alcohol.

 

ofcourse.................

 

It may work for you, but there ARE girls out there who do NOT under any circumstances find drunk and horny boys sexy... or confident... just so you know.

 

most guys cant talk to girls. either they are lame or fuckin cocky


BLAH!

 

haha i used to have that problem to trust me alcohol isnt a real solution i had to drink till i forgot what was it all about
it's all about confidence i changed my way of looking at life. allso a nice girl i got to touch a lot hlped me to not be nervous with my hands but natural soft yet strong touch.

P.S: still have that problem a little when i have a total crush

 

Obviously. They're called prudes, and I try not to associate with them.

 

I love how any girl who doesn't like you is called a prude. Why is it that guys have to get girls drunk to get laid? Oh thats right, because they suck otherwise.