girls is a married dad a turn on?

its been 7 yrs i've been with my girl and i have never even thought of venturing elsewhere. but she is constantly telling girls off or getting all crazy when we are out. half the time i don't even know about it until like, after we walk out of a store or something, she'll start going off asking me if i saw 'that girl' look'n at me.

well its been just me and my boy for the past week. we've been everywhere and i've been getting hit on somethin fierce. it makes me feel good but i don't like it either cuz i'm human. went to a mall and there were chics looking me up and down and i was pushing my 2yr old in a buggy, and he is cute as hell, but two diff times chics were trying to fish some info from me. i wear a wedding ring; it was just weird. and i'm a young 30 and most of the chics are low to mid 20's i'd guess.

so yeah its always the idea that a single mom is a turn off right? but what about single dads? what about married dads? i'd like to hear what girls think about all this...

 

My friend is a single dad, and he takes his two kids out to places with the idea of pulling and it works.

 

I tend to be friendlier with men toting babies because it shows their "maternal" side, which, being a mother of three little ones myself is common ground. It's not as though I'm hitting on them, because that's definitely not my intention as a happily married woman, I just have a lot of admiration for them, seeing a man out with his children makes him appear wholesome, loving, and demands respect in a world full of fathers who are absent from their childrens' lives.

So I'm always sure to give a hello and a big ol' smile, if not stopping to coo over their kids.

 

mmm, not really

 

nope, not at all

not in a place where I want kids
and married, hell no, they're with someone else, they are not available

 

yeah i know exactly what you are saying...

But what I have been experiencing is straight up flirting. I asked my wife about it last night and she thinks I'm an idiot. I have decided to try and see if I can get someone to do some covert filming while following me around.

Seriously though...last week this girl was beside me in a shop. She said, "cute kid, how old," etc. I responded, "rah rah...we're out play'n all week" etc..and she introduces her name to both lil pup and me...and then I say my name and then she gives me this very easy eye and asks, "so do you have him for the week?" ...as if I were divorced. I know for a fact that she was looking for a date had I been single...no question.

So yeah Anaconda I think there is definitely some 'relationship-clucky' going on in girls' heads when it comes to guys with kids. I have no doubt that there are a bunch of homewreckers out there eyeing me up

 

heh well some girls just like the idea of reeling in a married man because she can. Like it's a sort of triumph that they feel and a sence of I'm better than such and such's wife. And they will quickly drop the man once they have them. Having a kid like that portrays the possiblity of you being together with someone and those people like that will prey into that.

Another thing is quite a few girls like fathers. It shows their materinal side like hippychickmommy said. And they'll desire you more because girls realize you like kids and think you must be and could be a good father if you are out with your kid. It's a thing girls will look for more if they want to settle down and since there are a lot of single parents around it's an easy way for them to intiate conversation.

On the other hand women may just smile because they think it's cute you're with your kid or they think your kid is cute and aren't trying to pick you up at all. They just simply think it's sweet. They may even talk just to see the kid more and gossip for no reason other than curiosity and aren't trying to pick you up.

Personally I find daddies a turn off, because I hate children and NEVER want any. haha. But hey that's just me.

But anyways the point is... I'm sure it's a variety of reasons why girls are aproaching you now and all aren't trying to pick you up. Or else if that were true guys would tote kids around all the time for the chick magnent thing.

As far as your girlfriend/wife getting mad at you like that, it sounds like she's having a security issue that you'll need to talk with her about. If she's constantly accusing you, it'll put a terrible strain on the relationship. And besides it's not your fault if a girl smiles a you. It's not like you have control over it. Be sure to assure your girl that you love her and have a talk about that. It's very important in the long run to make sure she trusts you or she'll be giving herself unessisary pain and heartbreak.

 

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nah she has never given me a hard time...but she has given girls a hard time before. on occasion i have actually seen girls looking at me while she is around me. other times she just tells me about it...like 'did you see that girl lookin at you i could just slap her'. my wife thinks i am an idiot for thinking about it so much and then asking people (like on here) what they think about married men, etc.

totally shameless, but i have a lot to do with the women being attracted to me

 

Well, I myself find it surprising that I can go out with all three of my kids in tow and still get hit on, or have men nearly bash into things while staring (this happened yesterday in fact, a guy at the end of an aisle at the grocery store stopped dead in his tracks and kept staring, nearly plowed his cart into a display). *giggles* I'd think I'd be a total turn-off, but guys still flirt. It makes me feel good though, like I've still got it.

 

yes my married man is a turn on and whats more hes married to me!!!!!!!!!

 

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