well me and my ex have been broken up for four months now and i miss him very much he told me that we just fight to much and thats why we broke up. i have had sex with him a few times since we have been broken up i know that i shouldent have but its just that im so comfortable with him because we have been together for almost 4 years. today he came over to help me put our babys crib together and he was getting ready to leave and he leaned over to kiss melike he always use to and then he stoped and said '' wow what am i doing old habbit i guess'' and said he would call me later. he calls me all the time to see what im doing and to come hang out. do u think he is comming back to me i love him so much and i miss him too 4 months is so long to be without the one u love is he comming back to me please help me. i feel like im going crazy i miss him so much .
Ok, this is the way I see it. I think he's taking advantage of you because he can. He's having sex with you then leaving cause it's offered to him on a plate. I know it's difficult because you have a child with him, another on the way, and a long time invested in him but you're going to have to be strong and set some rules. You're never going to know his true feelings if it carries on like this, he's just getting what he wants. Talk to him and tell him you won't have sex with him anymore unless he comes back to you, and that he can't have things his own way anymore. You need to give him an ultimatum. If you're strong with him, you'll gain his respect. If he does come back then learn from the mistakes of the past, I think he does want you back it's just he'd rather have things the way they are now (having sex without the nagging). You really need to sit down and talk about how to rectify your initial problems together, and how things will change if he does decide to come back. Good luck.
