I am pissed

I hate this... i come home from school today and my mom completely went through my room and rearranged it... she went through everything.... absolutly everything... she even went through the drawer where i keep my weed... dunno if she found it though... luckily i hid my bong in my locker (not at school)


but this pisses me off... now my room looks like a kiddy room again... after i finally got it the way i liked it... all my old toys i put away are out again WTF?



i dont know if im overreacting.... but my room is my sanctuary... i cant stand people going in it....

 

uhmm don't know what to say...they never enter my room...maybe if you promised to clean it yourself ver VERY well
sorry kid...and put a locker on those drawers

 

I NEVER clean my kid's rooms after they are about seven years old. I am afriad of what I might find, and it is their space, and I am just too damn lazy, with four kids.

I am sorry your privacy was broken. Can you bring it up to your mom, without blaming or anger, and let her know that although you have nothing to hide, you DO want some privacy and would like a say in how your room is arranged? Maybe she'd understand?

Is she a real house cleaning nut? That's the great thing about a Hippy Mama. She ain't gonna clean your room.

 

SHE IS AN INSANE clean freak absolutly nuts about tidyness... which is why i keep my door shut... if a single blanket is on the floor my room is "a pig sty".... it sucks

 

i would seriously flip out if i came home and found my bedroom completely oposite of what i left it
one time my dad went in my room and seen all the clothes on the bed and gave be a huge lecure on how i had to neatly put them away or give em away.and he does the same exact thing.except worse sheesh.parents.what are ya gonna do? that's why i wish i lived in the shack in the back yard

i think you should do something to her room and see how she likes it:H

 

I never had that problem.

 

ahah...i wish someone would clean my room....i cant even get in there

 

My mom did that to me a while ago too. She said it needed cleaning but I know she was looking for something to get me in shit (aka weed ) I came home from being gone for the weekend to see my room completely spotless, I thought she was kicking me out of the damn house.
She hasn't done it since but I'm still paranoid about leaving stuff in there, I always carry my shit around with me now.

 

You think it's bad now, just wait till your hand is melting off. You'd be fucked in the sixth demension.

 

ahaha oh my god thats how my mom is too!!




on another note.
i'd be so happy if my mom cleaned my room.
except for that box in the bottom of the closet..and the 8-track player..
hah

 

never really had that problem, sometimes she complains that its to messy, but in the long run im to old for her to be cleaning or messing around in my room. in fact i feel to old being here...oh well

 

My mom complains, that is all. Sometimes I get tired of walking through clothes so I pick em up and throw them in a box. Clean/super clean ups rarely happen in my room.

 

when you've calmed a bit, sit down and try talking to her. but ONLY when you're calm, not when you're still upset.

let her know that you consider it a sanctuary, your place to destress, relax, and refocus yourself. That your mind doesn't function in clean places and fine lines, that you need mess and chaos to stimulate your brain. That it's just how you're wired, that you respect her, and appreciate her attempt to make your life a little easier but it just had the opposite effect of what she intended (hindered rather than helped)

 

The great thing about living away from your parents is having your mom call you and ask if you've made your bed.

My mom actually did that last year.

You're not alone darksideofthemoon.

And just for the record... your mom's not allowed to come over to my house.

 

OMGZ! you have an 8 track player

keen!

 

My parents start going through my room when they're suspicious, just to see my reaction, and also because I take my dads cds and dont return them for a long time, so he gets them back...but its annoying...

 

aaaaaaaaahahha

That's gotta be the funniest thing I've heard all day.








My mom doesn't go in my room. Actually, yes, she does, when I forget to take my fresh laundry up there... But she just leaves it next to the trap door and doesn't go any further....

Sorry about your mother, friend.

 

Your reasoning is infallible, my good sir George.

 

Why, thank you Kirk.

 

My mom used to do that to me.
She did it to snoop.
Just tell her in a calm, rash voice what you think about it and that it makes you mad. Don't yell, though.
If she doesn't listen, then deal with it. If you don't have anything to hide, you have no reason to worry.