me and my ex were together for almose 4 years and about 4 months ago he left me and i want him back really bad but he tells me that he dont want to be with me anymore because all we do is fight. i admit that i do nag him alot. i also admit that i do still have sex with him sometimes but i told him the other night was going to be the last time we will be together. i told him about a week ago that i still loved him and he asked me how much and i told him more then anything then he dident say anything back to me he just kissed me and thats it. i love him very much and we have 1 kid and one on the way and i want him back very bad how can i get him back please tell me soon im going crazy without him please help thank u very much bye.
Princess - you'll get better help if you take the time to organize your thoughts and present yourself in a more digestible form. I look at that paragraph, and see a monster. I'm not going to bother reading it.
my tip is to respect his wishes and move on. You are only playing yourself right now by thinking it will work. You are being self centered because you treat him like shit when you have him and start loving him again when he wants to leave. And btw, with the white trash situation you described above, he is being irresponsible in a way but I can't blame him for leaving....who the fuck wants to deal with 2 illegitimate children and a nagging girlfriend you don't love anymore?
interestin,,, tween this post and the one on tryin to induce your own labor early ,,,, sounds like ya'll are gonna be quite the lil family,,,, again all i can say is what R U not thinkin sister,,,,, i know sounds rotten n horrid n evil of me,,, but wtf,,, here comes another into the system ....
sounds like you're using each other, and it's not a good thing. He's taking advantage of you still willing to sleep with him, and you're sleeping with him in an attempt to get him back you two have broke up, it's over. You two need space from each other
Heya princess, I was really just wondering-are you happy in yourself? Do you like yourself, and are you completely content with the life you have made for yourself?... To me, the idea of having sex with someone who doesnt want me in any other ways is really quite a horrific one, and its just not something id ever do. I realise people have different values, but im just curious as to how much you value yourself. I also understand that its difficult when you have children, and the prospect of being a single mother must look scary. Do you look to the future and see something frightening? From what i can tell, this really sounds like the time you need to be strong. To realise exactly what your problems really are, (because it seems like, if youre honest, this relationship is really not going to be fixed, that its probably unhealthy for both of you, not to mention your children) and to fix them. Use this time to rediscover yourself (cheesy and psycho-analyst as that sounds) to strengthen yourself, so you can bring up your children, and move on to a healthier future for you all. Xx
