any opinion would really help. i've been going out with my bf for almost two years now. the thing is, i think i love him (i can't really say i do coz love is such a vague concept and it's really difficult to explain) and i know that he means a lot to me BUT i fell like i'm limiting myself to him. i want to see the world and meet new people, but i feel like my relationship with him is stopping me. another thing is that i'm afraid that if i break up with him, i might regret it and i'm just scared that nobody will love me like he does. i'm anxious at the idea of having to start another relationship from scratch again. i don't want to hurt him, but i feel like i need to grow and let myself explore other horizons..
it's a normal feeling ..........we were all like that at one time or another .........word of advice .....if he treats you right and you like him ,give it a bit more time before you jump the gun ....the old adage about the grass not being greener on the other side is so very true .........i felt the same when i was younger but decided to stick it out ....i'm glad i did .........been married 28 years now and raised 3 sons .......one is a machinist in the manufacturing of firetrucks ,one is a pilot who flies the high arctic and to greenland and the youngest is in his 3rd year of mechanical engineering at university ........when i think i could have thrown all that away it makes me shiver .........let your heart guide you........peace
