talking dirty back

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by DejaVoo, Mar 12, 2006.

  1. DejaVoo

    DejaVoo stardust

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    inspired by insanejesters post about girls getting off on being humilated and what not....


    i guess if its like name calling, like sometimes if we are both in a 'dirty' mood, he'll call me things like dirty girl and nasty bitch among other names, and i admit, it does turn me on. but like, i feel kind of awakard, because i dont know what to say back? nothing? call him something dirty? but what?! its so easy for guys to call girls things, but its hard for girls...i mean what can you really call him? a bastard? an asshole? those arent really like...sexy. i called him bastard once in the moment, and it didnt do much for me, and he told me it didnt do anything for him afterwards and i felt dorky, haha. i usually dont say anything, just start moaning and fucking him harder.

    but, what the hell r u suposed to say back, if anything? like i want to but, fuck?
     
  2. Pmeth

    Pmeth Member

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    Technically , i never thought a girl would say anything back... errr , you can call him a **** hahaha ;)

    im not really sure thats a good one...
    im kinda curious do all girls like to be called somthing dirty when they are in a sexual mood? once i was with my x gf and i called her a a bad girl and she looked at me ... and got pissed off hahahaha.... so im curious.
     
  3. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    all girls? Hell no!

    some girls, most definitely enjoy being called dirty names
     
  4. Pmeth

    Pmeth Member

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    Ah thanks haha :p it was a kinda funny experience ill never forget prob tell my kids someday.... I was with my girl a whillleeee back , and we where fooling around and she kept kissing my neck and i thought Hey ... what if i call her somthing she might be even more into it , and i called her somthing i forget exactly what .. and she got up and started yelling at me ... and i was very shy so i was just sat there and was like

    "Yes mam"
    "sorry" lol

    i guess , i can try to google it for you ... i cant really think of any words either... for some reason personally if a girl called me anything it woudnt really do anything for me , i woudnt feel anymore attracted or anything.

    i googled

    'Dirty words to call men' it has a couple.
     
  5. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I would prob just cry if somone called me a name in bed...I'm pretty adventurous but I don't like any sort of thing that messes with my psyche ...smack my ass and you'll have me on my back in a second but call me a name during sex and you'll have one sad girl in your bed...
     
  6. Mrs.H

    Mrs.H Something Witty

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    Exactly. I am a princess not a sub-human. I get adventurous too, but I don't dig being talked to like that.
     
  7. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I could never call a girl something like bitch or **** in bed. I can be dominating, but that, for one, seems really cheesy, as well as being disrespectful in the wrong sort of way.

    Sounds like its for guys who've watched too many bad pornos
     
  8. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Totally agree. I'm the same way. My husband has never once called me anything vulgar, in bed or out.
     
  9. Pmeth

    Pmeth Member

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    Now this is where i am confussed , some girls like it ... some dont... , how would you know? personally i never call any girls names in anything... but i heard some girls really like it and get into it?
     
  10. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    You ASK the girl, you COMMUNICATE with her

    it's as simple as "do you like dirty talk? Name calling too? Any names not acceptable or a turnoff?"

    that's all you gotta do to find out
     
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