ABs and Body

Ok so I got a quick question on the body and all that...

For the ladies...

When a guy takes off his shirt...And he doesnt have a six pack, and is kinda cuhbby...but doent look like that at allllllll when his shirt is on...Is it like a major turnoff? would that be a erason you wouldnt hook up with a guy?

and if you do like 200 situps a day...how long would it take to get situps...somebody whos not fat, but just doent haev a six pack..

just like how long would it take?

lol thankss....

 

getting a 6pack has more to do with losing fat around your stomach than doing a lot of crunches.

do weighted ab exercises and lose the fat around your stomach.

 

haha, 200 situps a day? haha, yea, you need to get rid of the fat before you abs will show and doing situps won't get rid of the fat...get to doing some cardio...

 

i dont want a guy who has a six pack. eww.

 

I wouldn't want a guy with a six pack, either. A nice flat/lean belly is nice, but I also like a little bit of chub.

 

im with you I like something to cuddle up with...I'm def soft pretty much all over almost. any man i date is obviously going to be harder then me in the obvious places (hah didn't mean it that way!) but yeah it's sexy when a man has a chubby stomach because their arms and legs are usually somewhat hard so to have that balance is errrhhhmmm driving me crazy just thinking about it. You know what else I like on a guy? Is like big arms but kinda chubby tricep muscles and just on the bottom part of their arm or hard shoulders and chubby armpits...I am so freaking weird i know it..and horny hahhhhhh but yeah whenever I saw a guy i was interested in i was always like hmmm he has huge muscular shoulders...i wonder if he has chubby armpits too...

and to OP if you're obsessing over that your girls gonna be turned off and insecure thinking you hold her to the same standards. I like guys who like to have fun and guys who trip on everything about themselves and you aren't condusive to a fun time!

 

It all comes down to what you want... my girl wants me to have a 6-pack and muscles, and I'm hitting the gym these days, running, trying to eat well (except today, omg had the BEST ice cream... some new place called MaryMoo or something like that lol), so I can make both me feel well (I want muscles and I want a 6-pack) and to please her.

 

ME EITHER! I like guys with some chub!!! Most definitely!

 

oh in that case yellowbellyhippy ill stop doing sit ups

 

Six packs are nice visual aesthetics if they're not those icky rock hard looking ones, but they're not important. 'Cause when it comes to sensation, some padding is the way to go. <3

 

whoa whoa whoa...now here is where I don't agree with a common accepted double standard in our society that is completley unfair to men. She has no right to place those kind of demands on you...that's awful! I had one guy I was with who I got on him about his weight and that was only because he gained 100 pounds in our relationship and I didn't want to marry somone who would leave the world way before me and I was still postive about it I didn't work so I made him healthy meals encouraged him to go for a walk with me ect. I didn't tell him he needed to lose weight just that he needed to be healthy so he could take care of teh family I thought we would have.

I did date a guy awhile ago who bashed the shit outta my self-esteem and make little comments about my weight all the time after gaining it from me breaking my freaking arm...it wasn't like I was ya know out eating donuts all day...and besides he wasn't exactly in shape himself especially with his 2 pack a day habit. but yeah his remarks fucked me up big time and I didn't realize it until just now.
see you don't need to trip on it as long as you're healthy you're fine the way you are. it's great to work out and be healthy but do it in a healthy way and to obtain health not looks...im sorry dude your girl sounds like a bitch...

 

I like the aesthetic of a flat torso. Doesn't matter if there's a sixpack or a little pudge on the bottom, as long as it's relatively flat I lurv it. Aaaah, skinny nerdboy type torso's (or maybe it's just that I like my guy's torso)

But a sixpack or no wouldn't affect our relationship, it just would be an added bonus. Not something I'd ever bother requesting, I'm not a big fan of really strong muscle definition either (usually because of the personality/ego involved)

 

lol it's ok, I *want* to achieve this look, so the fact that she wants me to look that way has been helping me out. I don't like the flabby look a lot of the girls here seem to like - I want abs and no fat so I can wear all the tight shirts I love wearing that I, well, can't currently lol

 

well then it's good that you're doing it for you...I would seriously just be careful as somone who has been in trophy relationships before trust me when I say it's not something that's easily maintainible nor should it be important when l;ove's involved.

 

That I totally understand! I'm actually trying to push her too, she really wants to look good for me as well, so we're going to be going to the gym together... I'll be helping her run, tone, etc.

It's going to be fun doing it together.

 

that sounds great but I hope both of you remember that people and egos are very fragile...be gentle with one another, understanding and respectful of those egos...as much as we like to deny their presence we all have them and need them stroked and for psychological reasons I would look at this as a health thing rather than a looks thing. Maybe look at it as you're going to be around for each other longer...

 

personally, i like arm muscles. i dont want a guy to have a fat stomach, but im really not looking for rock hard abs either. i guy who resembles some greek god just turns me off and makes me feel insecure.

so to asnwer your question, as long as you look fine in like a tshirt or whatever, i wouldnt worry about what exactly is underneath.

 

Wimmin are such liars huh ? They love rubbin their cooches on hard stomach muscles ... don't believe a freakin word...

 

Impressing girlfriends/boyfriends is the shittiest reason to get in shape. People who do it for those reasons are under a terrible psychological leash.

Having a strong set of muscles and relatively low body fat has many benefits to life that have nothing to do with impressing people. The reason why a ripped stomach is so attractive is because it has a sound physiological basis.

While I am very active and getting in shape pretty quickly (having lost over 50 pounds of jelly is really pleasing to me), I retch at the thought of doing it to impress a girlfriend. Something about that is just really degrading to me...

 

Thank Christ for that, there's hope for me then.