i want to meet someone and have some sexual attention. its been too long since my last girlfriend. i want to have somebody to love and have sexual relations with. this is the question for the girls: i never talk to any girls i see at the mall or anywhere! now, i actually want to go up to girls and say hi and my name and introduce myself. but i dont know what to TALK ABOUT after that!!! i dont wanna be like, hi my name is john, and have her look at me like..okay...so what...i want to talk about something for awhile and get to know her. also to get her to know that i want to give her oral and that i want it also, but thats if i'm lucky, lol right? can you girls help me?? i dont know what to say in conversations like that. that i walk up to a random girl in a mall and say hi.
Well here's what NOT to do - this has happened to me. *I'm standing at the Ruby Tuesday salad bar heaping spinich on my plate when...* RubyTuesdayGuy: Hey, how old are you? Me: *blinks* 17. . . RTG: What school do you go to? Me: SPC. . . RTG: You're cute. Me: Uh. . . Thanks? In comparison, "Hi, I'm John" kicks ass. Try complimenting her or something. . . Good luck.
I agree. Coming from a guy, that kind of crap never works. No creativity, nothing. Its almost as worthless as saying, "Hey, I'm Tim, wanna fuck?" Sheesh, some of us guys can be really stupid.
so you guys think if i say something like me: hi, i'm john. i think you're really pretty. whats your name? girl: anyname me: i was thinking maybe we can hang out sometime if you like hey girls, would something like that be pretty good?
Skip the "let's hang out" line - you already are. Try asking what she's into instead. If you can't find any common interests or strike up any conversation other than how much you want to bang her, things don't look good. After talking for a while, THEN ask if you want to exchange screen names or email adresses. Don't go straight for the phone number. RubyTuesdayGuy asked for my number (actually, the seating hostess was sent by him to get my number before I left) and I didn't give it. I met him ONCE. I had no idea who he really was. I didn't want someone calling my house over and over and over. If he had asked for a screen name or email, I'd give it to him. Good luck.
if youre trying to get a girl.. i like it if you dont stare at my breasts.. i can tell if your just trying to get with me by where you look and obviously what you say. dont ask me what the weather is like, or what school i go to. try to find out if my interests match with your interests. i like it when we have stuff in common. and i dont liek it when its always about you.oh and dont be selfish when we're fooling around. it pisses us off.
Don't overcomplicate things buddy, if your going up to a woman and engaging her in conversation, then that'll automatically show that your interested, thats all you need for now, don't try any 'I think your cute' crap, save it for later... Women can smell desperation, just be confident, be yourself, try to forget about her ass, and keep the conversation light and breezy. Keep the conversation on her, trust me, answer her questions about you, but keep the conversation on her, and act really interested in what shes saying. Don't gawk at her, but its ok to check her out, pay close attention to her body language. Forget about your ego, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there. Women love confidence. Most importantly, have fun with it!
Some people make it all way too complicated. Women aren't that complex. Just keep in mind, its okay to fuck up a couple dozen times before you meet a girl, it happens to the best of us. When you first meet her and she looks you in the eyes, look back until she looks away. Most guys just squirm around and look over at Barneys or whatever. Its really easy to strike up a conversation about some common interest, look around, she maybe has a sticker with greenpeace on it, or maybe you two have a common friend. You can always talk about shopping or places in the mall when your at the mall, most girls love shopping. (I do too) I can probably come up with some more advice for later, but I'm tired... Don't fuck it up. Have fun with it!
Haha, okay sorry, someone on here with something turtle posted something and I assumed they were a guy. Glad its not you, I'd hate to make more enemies here.
Oh uh... surface, also never try the line I just used on TurtleFriend. "did I think you were a guy the other day" never works. lol (sorry turtle I'm drunk)
Tee hee hee - that reminds me from a line from the 4th Harry Potter. Ron: "Hermione. . .You *are* a girl."
My hole goal when i am trying to go for a girl is to embarass her.(In a funny way, or nice way) That way it leaves an impression on her. Like the last one I did.... It was a girl I had met once before at a party, and I had seen her working a few days ago. I didn't even recognize her until she said something to me Amy: Hey are you Drew?? Drew: Yeah? Amy: Do you remember Me?? Drew: *Looking down at nametag* Oh yeah I do! (lol) Drew: How have you been?? Amy: Good and yourself? Drew: Good but busy... Drew: I see you are still looking as pretty as ever Amy: *Embarassed*, thank you Drew: Well I will See you later sometime! Amy: cya later! hehe her face was bright red. See you let them know that they have your attention without making any moves right away. Now i am going to stick in her head regardless of if i have a chance with her or not. Atleast now I know I can become friends with her if anything. She is a cool girl (as far as what I can tell) so I may go back sometime to start becoming friends with her.
