helo, me and b/f were going to try anal sex soon, i heard you should use a condom to not spread infections, and that you should go really slow and use lube. is it really nessary to use lube, if you have a lubricated condom and use alot of spit? can it work or...? thanks!
I would never even consider attempting anal sex without lube. You can cause physical damage, and the more slippery you are, the less discomfort you'll feel. Invest in a tube of lube and it'll last you a while. You'll be glad you did.
Lube is a must..not only for easier entry, but the anus doesnt self lubricate. A condom is a must...and a bottle of Fleet is reccomended as well.
Yes, use lots of lube or you could cause tears in your anus and that wouldnt be much fun =) And fecal matter can get into your blood stream if that happens, which ain't cool.
It is recommended to use lots and lots of good quality (silicone based such as anal eze?) lubricant. Good quality condom, preferably heavy duty, must also be used. Some people like to have an enema or two before doing anal but that is optional (and about the only optional thing in the world of anal sex). Also I would recommend having some baby wipes handy to clean up the mess, this is a good way to get BF used to the idea of wiping up shitty bottoms, for when he becomes a daddy bf. My question to you is why you want to try anal (particularly at such an early stage of your relationship)? You are better off working on your sphincter muscles, if done right you'll blow your BF's mind every time without having the hassel and mess of anal. However if that is what you want who am I to argue, just make sure that you tell bf before you start that if you tell him to stop he better stop or else.
Definatly, anal w/o lube though possible would be... painfull to say the least. maybe with something really small like a baby carrot but not even a finger without some lube. and if ur using latex condom dont use petrolium based oil jellys cuz itll disolve the condome
Here is what we do for anal sex.. She will lay face down and I will give her a back massage using lotion. I will massage her back and her boobs. Then I will begin to massage her ass. I will reach around and rub her clitoris while I am touching her anus. I will let my penis slide between her butt cheeks. When we are both really hot I will put on a condom and put lots of Wet Platinum(you can't use too much) on my penis and her anus. It feels so good to both of us as my penis slides slowly in. She then puts a dildo in her vagina for a type of DP. In just a few minutes we are both cumming. It has never hurt and it shouldn't. If it hurts stop. Actually we prefer other types of sex other than anal. Her vagina is so tight. She does more anal on me massaging my prostate than I do on her. She loves to do this.
From personal experience I would totally suggest a enema, Fleet Saline oral works great, follow the directions and give yourself 4 hours to work its magic. If you don't use a condom make sure he doesn't switch to your vagina after sticking it in your butt or you are in for one hell of a vaginal bacterial infection. Lube and a lot of butt foreplay is a must unless you're into pain and blood.
