pulling out....?

having sex withought a condom (or any other protection/prevention) dosent way up agenst bringing an unwanted child into the world.

 

None at all.

 

the pulling out method is not a safe method its how i got pregnant.

 

Pulling out is NOT a means of birth control. More like Russian Roulette.

 

Honey ,you will want to stop him from doing that.

 

you can cum inside her if she is not fertile. But you BOTH need to know that.

http://www.woomb.org will teach yo how to look at the vaginal liquids and determine if she is fertile or not.

it's great when she is not!

 

I know a good few people who have conceived from the pulling out method, infact it's not really a protective method at all.

 

My boyfriend and I use the withdrawal method for a month and i never turned up pregnant. But I soon went on the patch. Pulling out isn't perfect, but it helps.

 

This, I believe, is called Catholic contraception and if it was effective I would think the rat in rome would have declared it a sin.
Guess it is better than not pulling out at all but if I remember back to sex ed class there is usally a few sperm that get into the pre-cum fluid which can cause you to get big belly syndrome.
You really want to use a condom, not just for anti preggie purposes but STD's are real and they are out there.

 

Or the anguish of having to kill the child. That is what shits me the bloke is a big fucking hero with his mates for getting a girl pregnant but the girl has to go and be a killer.

 

Well, it's the method my boyfriend and I have been using and we've already had two pregnancy scares. I can't be on oral contraceptives because they make me crazy and we can't use latex condoms because I'm allergic to latex, so yeah...he's got great control, but we're both aware that we're risking it. If we could afford any other means of contraceptives (that I'm not allergic to...good god...allergies suck), then we would. But...a pregnancy's not all that unwanted, either. Save the lectures, I know, I'm only 19, blah blah. But anyway, I really don't suggest it, the only reason why we do is because of all my stinking allergies. Meh.

 

Have you prepared yourself mentally and spiritually for the event that you may become pregnant?
I am not being sarcastic (for a change) but rather offering you the advice that being prepared for a "unwanted" pregnancy is a perhaps a good idea.
That is one of the things I would be doing if I was in your unfortunate shoes.
Is there nothing you can use? What about these http://www.ripnroll.com/Poly-Rips.htm

 

Go to planned parenthood immediately. They will find a solution for you!!!!

They have free birth control if you qualify.

 

ive had sex without a condom and used the pullout method it has worked and my girlfriend and i have had sex like 70 times....but thats not an excuse to do it i really should be a father right now i got really lucky shes on the pill now

 

if this method has worked for you before -- AWESOME! You are lucky. That does not mean it works for everyone, or that it even works at all.

It did not work for me. Ask the fetus that I miscarried after one month.

As far as the oral debate ... I am a feminist, and I do not enjoy oral. That does not make me a prude, and it does not mean that I do not love my partner. It just means that I prefer making eye contact and being held during sex. We use condoms (albeit, admittedly, not always correctly ...) and are quite happy -- because we are pretty sure we aren't going to transmit diseases OR create a child.
As far as the "feel-good" debate -- no, it doesn't feel quite as good physically ... BUT it feels better emotionally and ethically. (See above.) And if sensation really IS a problem, try thin condoms like Kimono brand.

As far as being objectified ... it is ALWAYS wrong. Period, sister.

 

Oral sex is just a part of sex. Men make oral sex to women, women make oral sex to men. Its not something bad. If you love your bf or gf then there is nothing wrong about it. If its an one night stand, it means that you do this by your own free will. So again, its not a bad thing. You are being objectified only when ur partner do something or wants you to do something but you dont want to do it. He makes you do it. THATS the bad thing. Be a feminist about real stuff

 

I wasn't suggesting that oral was objectification. I was referring to objectification in any sense, by anyone's definition.

And please do not suggest that I think oral sex is bad, or wrong, or that by not liking it I am somehow anti-love. Really. That was not my intention, and it sort of offends me a little bit. =)

By the way, I am not implying that this was anyone's intention, but just a reminder ... Identifying the word "feminist" with the sense of an overhysterical and/or frigid and/or man-hating and/or anti-love (etc) individual is the same as identifying the word "hippie" with a dirty and/or lazy and/or crazy and/or ANYTHING person.

So we all ought to avoid that sort of trip.

Peace to all. - K

 

yeah pull out doesnt work..it feels better..but the chances of gettin preggers are way to much!!! i dont recommend it

 

yeah pull out doesnt work..it feels better..but the chances of gettin preggers are way to much!!! i dont recommend it

 

yeah pull out doesnt work..it feels better..but the chances of gettin preggers are way to much!!! i dont recommend it