Breaking up and getting back issues.

Ok i guess i just need a second opinion here. My girfriend broke up with me and we were broken up for about 6 days. The day after we broke up i asked if she would think about taking me back and she said that she honestly didnt know whether or not she wanted to and not to talk to her for at least a week. So I went to a party that weekend and i kissed this girl i met. It wasnt anything serious it was just a drunken kiss. So after about the week of not seeing my gf i went back to her room and told her how i felt and that i still had so many feelings for her and that it didnt feel right to not be with her. We got back together for 2 weeks and she broke up because she told me that her feelings had changed for me entirely. That in itself is confusing but it gets worse. I truly didnt think it was important for me to mention kissing another girl in that 2 week period.

So about 4 days go by and this girl tells my ex that i kissed another girl while we were broken up. she told her this around 3:00 or something. I saw her 2 times after then and i waved to her an she waved back at me and it seemed like everything was ok just a little akward. Then at 1130 she storms into my room furious talking about that girl. All i said was i didnt know i had to tell her things i did when we broke up and that if she would have asked i would have told her. She then walked up to me and slapped me in the face which really shocked me since during our entire 5 month relationship we never once hit each other. I called her back to talk but the same thing happend and i got hit even harder across the face.

I really loved this girl so much.. but i dont know why she would want to do this to me after its been so hard to forget about her alrdy..I told her we could be good friends after i stopped loving her much more than that and i felt like it was truly possible until now.. some kind words of advice could help.

 

violence in a relationship is not acceptable, not even a slap (especially for something so little as a kiss while broken up. Yeah, it probably would've been better to mention it before hand, but it does NOT warrant a violent response)

 

Forget about her. ihumurria is right. Violence is unacceptable...especially over something as little as a kiss when you two were broken up.

 

She sounds like she has issues of her own to deal with. Perhaps control issues. She is the one who broke up with you, yet seems to have expected that you still act like you were in a relationship with her afterwards anyways. Reeks of control issues to me. Slapping you was a *tad* bit over-dramatic as well...more than a tad.

 

this from someone who punched me in the arm....i think i still have a bruise

 

Ok thanks guys i feel a little bit better about the whole thing. I dont know why but i still care about her so much.. but i must be blind since now that i think about it i cant believe she would ever ever hit me.

 

Wow that I my self don't under stand. You where broken up when that occured and you had no oblagation to her.so why is she mad? Jelouse I guess. And when you broke up the second time because her feelings changed for you and she got all mad... whoa sounds strange to me. Im not entirly sure. Its gunna be hard to move on but you will eventually. I can't sya much because I never been in love, and im still pretty young.

Good Luck
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