I know its gonna happen. I knew my relationship was going downhill. Now I dont know what to say when he does it-I would never want to break it off w/ him, iv always had a thing 4 him. But, he was kind of a jerk-(u can even find my post bout the bad b/j, "Undecided") He never really knew how to respect women. He never hit me or anything, but im talkin sexually. Hed be all over me, never let me do anything to him, and assumed I was ok with it. I wasnt a bad g/f, I never did anything like call him all the time, I think iv only called him twice(in fact, hes told me he never liked the phone, but called me when somthing came up), I would never drag him out shopping with me, we just agreed on things. We've been friends, before we started dating, but I think I need a little time to myself first. Its not like we were "bffs" and then I started likeing him-He knew I liked him when we were friends, untill we began going out. A part of me wants him to feel sorry for loosing me, a part of me wants to get back at him. But, then theres the part with still bein friends....HELP!
im really sorry about your issues w/ ur bf. i cheated on mine and told him and im just waiting for the fire works. i know he's really pissed off and i deserve it if he's really gonna leave me. you know youre gonna get dumped and believe me its better than just getting dumped at once without even knowing it.. if you know he's a jerk then why so sad? but I think I need a little time to myself first. why dont you tell him that? take a break from him and maybe he'll get more sexually mature.. he probably feels sorry for loosing you anyways Now I dont know what to say when he does it-I would never want to break it off w/ him, iv always had a thing 4 him. you know your relationship is going downhill.. you've gotta talk to him and save it if he gives a rat's ass. tell him all these things youve said in here. tell him that you love him and that you want him to let you do stuff to him.I wasnt a bad g/f, I never did anything like call him all the time, I think iv only called him twice(in fact, hes told me he never liked the phone, but called me when somthing came up), I would never drag him out shopping with me, we just agreed on things. you did nothing wrong either.. you said it yourself. so there's nothing he can use against you... youve gotta tell him how much you wanna be with him. um.. sorry i cant think straight right now.. hope this helps.
i know how u felt about the cheating-I cheated on my old boyfriend, in fact, for my current one. I desurved it when he dumped me, I still regret it. Although, he tryed to get back with me...thanks for the advice
You get a lot of mixed feelings after a breakup. You have to follow your heart and go with the feeling that is strongest.
