Howdy Ya'll, well i have to start this post by saying im only 13 in 7th grade.... so don't go into adult ways to get around this situation.... but with that aside.... I'm really in love with this girl, but she "likes" some other guy from a whole different town and school. She knows that im in love with her, and we're friends, but i can't seem to get her to like me any more than just that... friends... how do i make a girl like me... wat do they want to see in a guy??? and again... im only 13 so even tho that might make this harder to anser, please keep ur ansers in the context of a 13 year old thanks!! ~~hippyfreakdude~~ "I have only one burning desire, let me stand next to your fire!" -jimi hendrix
ummm, you can't "make" someone like you... I was in sort of the same situtation (there wasn't really another guy) but i was just hr friend. just be her friend, and don't feel awkward around her... it is most likely of a "we'll see what happenes" sort of situation
You can't do anything. Any trying won't help and it may just make things worse. I know it sucks, but just accept it for now and see if anything changes. When girls like another guy, even if Brad Pitt wanted to go out with them it wouldn't matter...What for her to stop liking this other guy or for it to blow over or whatever, and then you have a shot...until then, don't even try (you'll just look desperate).
Im near you age , and im stuck in the same problem as ... currently i have no good solution just keep showing her , flirt with her but not so much IN UR FACE FLIRTING , have a good time with her as friends show her you can be loving and a good friend. Dont rush her into things , if its long distance hopefully she will lose interest in the other guy becasue she cannot see him as much. Dont worry hang in there. For example the girl i like doesnt smoke while i smoke weed , sometimes...well im starting to do it more lol ( not good ) but for example when im high she always loves being around me becasue i get so relaxed and i get "funny" becasue ill turn random crap into halarious jokes for her. SO sometimes after school me and my crush just hang out ... i know she has a bf and i kinda know her bf... so i woudnt feel right making a move on her , she doesnt know i like her thats the thing about me... and me and her have been friends for 2 years now im kinda in the same pickel im scared...but ..i dunno what to say becasue it will be so UNEXPECTED.
Err... Yes! You can! Hippyfreakdude: Lean back. Don't focus too much on getting her! Focus on having fun! Try to be comfortable about it!
Err... Yes! You can! Hippyfreakdude: Lean back. Don't focus too much on getting her! Focus on having fun! Try to be comfortable about it! Try to "connect" with her!...
Yous 13 and far too young to be worrying about 'being in love'. Walk away and learn about life first, You've got your best years in front of you right. Live them, then you can worry about falling in love . You also need to be chilled and laid back about your relationships with women and dont stress them out. Then they dont want to feel stressed to be with guys. Just give life a chance to happen natrually.
I'm with Pmeth on this one, kid. But don't forget to have some fun in life - not all deep love affair stuff. Time for that crap later. **sings, "...there's more than one smoke in the pack," then puffs, and puffs, and blows.....!**
leave the girl alone. to find the other one who like you. so many beauty around you.give up this , to pick up the second one. this is my advice . how do you think,my dear friend?
Dude...you really can't make her like you. Just keep being friendly and importantly, yourself, and she might grow to like you by herself.
