What would it take for you to

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bellfire01, Mar 3, 2006.

  1. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    get married to someone? I hear people say all the time that they'll never marry but I believe everyone has a price. (Wether it's money, love or something else, it's up to you) What would will make you say I do?
     
  2. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    I married for love, pure and simple.
     
  3. Tigerbeam

    Tigerbeam Member

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    If I care about them, and they want to get married, that's enough. But I'm young, that could change.
     
  4. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    money


    hahahah! LOL, yeah right... love true looooove. that's where it's at. noone ever dies wishing they had more money, it's all about the love, baybee.
     
  5. the_princess_rosy

    the_princess_rosy Member

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    yeuch, why would anybody bother getting married? what sort of things could a married couple do that an unmarried couple couldnt? it seems a bit pointless, but that's not to say i'm against it. i could be convinced to get married if it was something my partner wanted.
     
  6. olhippie54

    olhippie54 Touch Of Grey Lifetime Supporter

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    I was married for 10 1/2 years. That was the longest 20 years of my life! Never again!!
     
  7. canadian_boy

    canadian_boy Brohn Zmith

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    Love ...
    True Shakesperian love :D
     
  8. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I'll put you down for shotgun and whiskey.
     
  9. andcrs2

    andcrs2 Senior Member

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    Last time it was for Eternal (or was it infernal?) Love.

    Thirteen Good years later...

    Head says go for the dough.
    Heart's not in agreement...
     
  10. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    ummm... that's actually a very good question. i don't believe in marriage myself... but this guy i like would have to just blow me away into making me trust him with keeping me happy and emotionally occupied with the rest of my life. i want to know that i won't be attracted to ANY other guy and won't feel shipped away and old and rotten. he has to be every other guy i'm going to fall inlove with (by being himself).

    otherwise, i don't want a midlife crisis when i realize there could have been so many other men i could have dated.
     
  11. ruski

    ruski Senior Member

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    just love.

    ill rely on myself to make my millions, itd be more satisfying for me to be rich off my own doings, not scabbing off my husband. ive learnt to appreciate money in this way
     
  12. themnax

    themnax Senior Member

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    mine was someplace i wouldn't get in trouble for living.
    along with love too of course.
    but love alone wouldn't have required it if that were more widely understood.
    i married her bacause i didn't want her to loose the love and respect of her friends,
    but mosly i just needed a place where i could live without there being any sort of problems about my doing so.
    in many ways i regret this, i DO much more enjoy being alone, but i can't really blame her for what i regret about it.
    and according to our beliefs we could just simply leave each other at any time, so there must be more then just my survival paranoia to my staying with her.
    for one thing i do have this computer instead of having to sleep under a bridge.
    my love of her has not diminished my love of the idea of polyamoury.
    only love and my wish to avoid causing unhappiness keeps me monogamously loyal.
    which for better or worse, and sometimes regretfuly, i am.

    =^^=
    .../\...
     
  13. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    Love of course. Everything else is so pointless compared to it.
     
  14. batmannu

    batmannu banned

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    inner feeling coming from my chest saying me yes You want to marry.. go for it..
     
  15. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    love and trust
     
  16. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    love, promoise of mantaining my freedom,individuality and independance, trust, promise of being best friends and living a life time of laughter, protection, promise of never going to bed angry...and letting me have some say in my ring hence the individuality-practicing it early on.
     
  17. andcrs2

    andcrs2 Senior Member

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    Is it in the air/water/or what out there?
     
  18. Mrs.H

    Mrs.H Something Witty

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    Me too.

    :)
     
  19. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I meant to ask you;what do you mean by maintaining your freedom?
     
  20. lankymidget

    lankymidget Worlds Tallest Dwarf

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    It IS about love... HAS to be!

    But does it have to be romantic love?



    *shuts up*
     
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