I used to be so fun and alive and now that I am a new Mom and wife I feel like I am dull and boring...serious like. I have turned into June Cleaver,. I use to dress and act fun and hot and now I'm . I am going to tell you guys something that I will nevertell anyone...I always say that I hate my sister-in- law and sometimes I do but I do really admire her...come on she has four boys underthe age of 6, she looks great she is always the life of the party (maybe to much) and she never is not fun. On one hand I waqqtn to act my age but on the other hand to be that open and look that good at 36 with four boys, I just have one and I look like shit....alothough I have lost 40 pounds in the five months since I have had my little guy. Please help...I lost my HIP.
Hon, it's only been 5 months since you had your baby. Let me tell you, as a mama to three little ones, a 6 year old and a set of almost 3 year old twins, that first year of a baby's life is rough. Being the life of the party is that last thing you're in the mood for. I felt "unhip" after I had my kids during the first year of life, but I feel 10 times better now. Don't worry, you'll get back to the way you were, heck, maybe even moreso. I think I've become a much more relaxed and fun person since I've had my kids. {{{Hugs}}}
You get to EXPRESS your hip more when you are chasing a kiddo as compared to carrying constantly! So sit back, read the babe the Lorax, or On the Road (hey, my kid nursed a lot and I'm a compulsive reader) or some other change you literature and get a great backpack and to HELL with sis in law and her gravity defying boobs.
Well my parents are unhip. Before I was born, my dad was very hip. I guess until my sister was born 6 years later, he was still pretty hip. Now he's stressed and has no time for anything. My mom is always very stressed, but people like her. Neither one of my parents looks good at all, and my mom eats ice cream to deal with her stress. So I don't know. Keep doing the stuff you want to do, even though you have kids. Don't worry about "acting your age." If you're a hippie, it's because you don't care about what people are "supposed to do".
Hey, love! The bigger the horse, the smoother the ride. My ex (17 years of marriage, 16 years of divorce and we still get it on occasionally), was 220 when I married her. She didn't lose any weight. Give me the big mamas anytime.
Anyhow, I always thought June Cleaver was hot in her spike heels and tight skirts, but that probably is just my teenage thinking: that boy has been long dead. Now, just I remain: an old fuck that has lost interrest in most damn near everything. I DO love my stupid cats, though.
dont worry bout other ppl...be good to your baby and yourself....you'll get your groove back in no time.....relax babe...enjoy being a new mommy....^_^
