So.... after seeing American Pie, I figured it's never an issue, guys gotta be trigger-happy, right? But recently got involved with a girl, and while I can get off, it takes me a long while... so I don't always get off from things we do. It's not that I can't keep it up--that's no problem, but I just take a while to actually climax. Question is: for girls here, would that be "an issue" for you? Would you be upset by it? Would it bother you if your guy couldn't cum every time you two do something?
I don't know. If I can't make my guy cum, I feel defeated. Like I'm not doing something right. Even if we've had marathon sex and I can't get him to cum as many times as I have, I get discouraged...I don't know, that's just me, though.
Of course its an issue. Seek medical advice immediately. Freak! Seriously though, who cares? If your girlfiiend and you are happy with your sex life, then thats all that matters. And generally women like their men to last longer if they are good in bed.
i would find it hard to feel confident i was doing the right thing, but i think if you explained it to her it would be okay, PLUS your keeping your boner, so u can prove that your turned on and i would LOOOOOVE it if my boyfriend could last for ages, Love Amanda
