Jack off material

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by lynsey, Feb 23, 2006.

  1. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    Sometimes i think about past guys that were mistakes (no one on here!) who've seen me uhm rather comprimised and knowing that they kept my panties or that they are jacking off to me makes me physcially ill. I think it should be a rule that you obtain permission prior to masturbated to an image of somone or especially their undergarments...
    do you ever feel yucky knowing that somone who was a mistake is thinking about you while whacking it?
     
  2. Bella_Donna

    Bella_Donna *Femme Fatale*

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    Oh God, no! It's the biggest turn on ever! I used to make an ex call me everytime he was jacking off and thinking of me because it would get me so wet. I love the idea of it.
     
  3. nesta

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    no matter how confident you are in a relationship there is always the chance it will go sour. if it really makes you physically ill to think an ex may think of you while masturbating (which is pretty sure of yourself) then i guess there's really nothing you can do except just make sure the situation may never happen again.

    personally...hell...i have a really hot ex gf that for the longest time i would have loved to get back with...but i've never thought of her while masturbating since we broke up. sex is an emotional thing if you love the person and thats not something i want to think about involving an ex. if theyre "a mistake" then i guess it's different. everyone makes mistakes, but there are certain ways to -help- avoid them....a lot of the time anyway....
     
  4. Mrs.H

    Mrs.H Something Witty

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    D'oh!
     
  5. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    ehm, yeah.... there's one ex who I really frickin hope he deleted soem pics of me that I'd sent to him. My other ex I dun care about, if he has anything or thinks about my why the hell not. But we had a really good break up, the other guy ehhhh... not my cleverest choice of guys
     
  6. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    ohhhhh nooooooo this one emails me and tells me...yeah and not in a way where I can call him on it. It wasn't a 'real relationship', it was a me being naive, stupid and young and wondering oh shit what did I do and get myself into. It was short lived...wouldn't call it a relationship.
     
  7. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    yeah mistakes suck. Next time I get that gut feeling I'm so freaking listening to it. I am never ever going to have sex that is not pre-meditated again. The only times I haven't felt used sexually were the two times I had it when it was planned and another time I wasn't used they guy loved me but I was drunk and such and didn't love him or feel that way for him so same difference.
     
  8. Sunburst

    Sunburst Fairy

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    I think its actually really flattering! As long as there's no 40-year-old men (40-year-old women are A-okay!) doing it then I think its way groovy ;)
     
  9. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    eewwwwwww but what about people you don't like? I'm taking my myspace pictures down because I was just talking to my friend on the phone and she suggested that this guy I went to high school with who's bugging the crap outta me is prob yanking it to my pics....blaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhh. But yeah somone I like I find it a turn on but if I don't like them I get mad like they're violated my privacy by thinking of me that way, they should have to ask first lol.
     
  10. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    aha, I hate second guessing actions you've taken, wondering if it's a mistake or not, if it's too early or not, if they're wondering why the hell you sent them some pics and didn'tn fucking send a reply back. *twitches* not that I'm, yaknow, high strung or anything. AAARG. *glowers*

    Anyways... I think the point is that if I like the person, or bear them no animosty whatever, let 'em beat off to whatever they want to. If I regret knowing them or dislike them, the thought of them jacking off to anything involving me is, well, a little creepy and a little uncomfortable
     
  11. Lainey

    Lainey Member

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    i always tell a guy if i masterbate to him. i agree he has a right to know.
     
  12. Raving Sultan

    Raving Sultan Banned

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    lol, this is funny. just imagine the sweaty bastard working it to your pics online!
     
  13. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    ahhhhhhhhhhh god nooooooooo see if I flirt with you I figure fair game ya know jack off with all intensity every morning when you wake up, please flatter me. But if you're an ex boyfriend, somone I have repeatedly turned down and because you freaking honestly creep me the fuck out do not jack off to me or myspace message me telling me your jealous of somone's comments who I actually do like. Wtf what right does he have to be fucking jealous. We were friends in tenth grade I turned him down for a date then and now and yeah the jealous thing is creepy and he called my mom trying to come over blahhhhhhhhh.
     
  14. lynsey

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    yes!!!!!!!! what is the kicker everytime I have gotten back with an ex they have said 'oh god do you know how many times ive thought of you while' yeah blah welll there goes the passion of the get back together sex. ex's just shouldn't be allowed to remember the sex or me naked or the lingerie or anything they should have a pill they have to take or something to erase the memory.
     
  15. Raving Sultan

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    i cant control who i have sex dreams about but im not going to tell a girl about them.
    "oh baby last nite i dreamt i was in you"
    no way!
    i like to talk dirty but about things i want to do, not things i do to myself
     
  16. Lainey

    Lainey Member

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    im strate up like 'i masterbate to you; just letting you know' , i am just so curious for the response
     
  17. Nalencer

    Nalencer Dig Yourself

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    That's an iditoic thing to say. People can jerk to anything they want. Am I the only one who thinks this girl has some emotional issues to be that bothered by people having fantasies about her? And having to ask first? if you were serious about that, God.
     
  18. Raving Sultan

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    Once i deliver custard i forget about it. its not like i name them
     
  19. indescribability

    indescribability Not To Be Continued

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    i kinda sorta doubt any of my mistakes have me on their mind while they ummmmm do their thing i do not know why anybody would think about their ex anyway i prefer to think about current
     
  20. lynsey

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    what issues that I don't wanna be thought of sexually by people who creep me out?...if that's an issue it's a good one to have imo
     
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