my wife has never had one?

my wife says shes never had one , ever!
i wont go into too much detail, but has anyone found a way to fix this problem?

 

she has never ever had an orgasm? has she had orgasms by masturbating? or is it just with men? or is it just with you?

 

only with masturbating and never with any partner...she says.

 

learn to give good oral sex and even if your jaw gets tired keep at it till she gets off. once she's warmed up well, focus your efforts primarily on the clitoris, but if you're feeling up to it you can get TERRIFFIC results from sucking on/licking the clitoris while using your fingers to get her g-spot....if you do it right, she'll be writhing and moaning and it will feel like she's about to break your fingers....for best results remember when this happens that the female orgasm tends to last longer than the male orgasm, and try to follow her movements and keep at work and not quit just when shes just barely started cumming. women are funny that way sometimes....you can be just on the brink of a mindblowing orgasm and you mess up or slack off for just a second or two and you might have to start back at square one....

 

ou yes, that's true. oral works better with weed

can she masturbate infront of you? this question may seem off topic, but it makes a difference.

 

hmm, no i guess she wouldnt do that, paintitblack. porn is out of the question too.
not real sure ive found that g-spot either.

 

has anything ever happened to her in an abusive way?

 

good question, but i dont think so. she was raised pretty stable.

 

Found these links from [thread=144320]thread 144320[/thread]
sexuality.org/l/incoming/acunn
about cunnilingus

They will tell you to invest time in stimulating her before diving in with oral.

BTW, a woman does not have to be abused to have trouble with sex.

Wish you success

 

sometimes we dont recall.
does she like sex?

 

shes much more sexual than i am!
yes, she likes it.

 

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i completely agree...sometimes it is trust issues or intimacy issues. i was just asking something that i wondered as sometimes that is the case and sometimes it is now.

i havent a clue if i had been or not...but i do know i have a problem with sex...i am working on changing my mindset and letting go...and with that, marveous things are happening, it doesnt matter if something happened or not, just the fact that i know i have a problem. letting go is really really hard when you are frightened of something...whatever that something might possibly be.

 

Men are clit-ignorant sometimes. They need to work on that part and then everyone can come out satisfied. Get her some toys, like the buzzing bee is my favorite!

 

cocaine,, works everytime..