Alright guys im new to the forum and ill be stickin around, but im here mainly on my few intrests and questions about my lovelife. Well since im in the oral and anal sex catagory i figured i would post a anal sex question/problem, im sure this has been addressed before but i desperatly need my question answered.. haha i want to have anal sex. Well my situation is i have had a girlfriend for a year and a half now and i keep bringing anal sex up she has let me try numerous times but it NEVER works. Every time i try lubed up etc she crys and screams. Shes not giving a weak effort because she always lets me try and just tells me i have to stop it hurts to much, ive never actually been able to insert more then half my penis into her while tryin anal sex and i want to know if there is a way around this or if i just need to live with whats goin on, i would love if i could have anal sex with her. I have lubed her up and started small (finger) but it just never works she even tells me it kills her when i use just my pointer finger. All help/tips etc would be great.
Well, you shouldn't just go shoving your cock up there! That's gonna hurt for sure. You need to work her up to it. Start small, yes fingers are good and then progress to more fingers or small dildos. Use lots and lots of lube. It will hurt a little to begin with but in time, it'll become more and more pleasurable for her. The fact that she lets you keep trying means she obviously wishes to do it, but needs more preparation. Take it slow, it's sooooo worth it.
don't listen to bella donna, just keep plugging away and she'll love it eventually! im just kidding dont do that.
Thing is she isnt crazy about it but she likes to please me.... so as in time..your meaning a month two months of working really small and goin bigger and bigger. Lol what do i do when only my middle finger hurts her?
Sticking a whole finger up an orifice that generally used for expelling will hurt for a little bit. It took me more than a few months to be comfortable with fingers, let alone a cock. It takes time, if you're not willing to give it time, then you shouldn't bother at all. You'll just hurt your girlfriend and she'll end up resentful.
I totally understand what you are saying.. thanx for all the help... i will make sure i take it as slow or slower then i have before
Hehe, that post made me hot! I love when a man's going down on me and he slips a finger in the backdoor. It drives me over the edge!
