The girls at shcool were the meanest......

When I was in 7th grade ,I asked so many girls out.Every single one said no and gave me a getto-ish attitude.It was hard for me to even ask girls out after those days.And it kind of made me feel bad.Guys,Were girls also mean to you when you asked them out in school?

 

What's a ghetto-ish attitude?

The guys are public school used to turn me down all the time, too. They were pretty mean about it, too. Then, I grew boobs and I stopped getting refused. My advice, grow some boobs.

 

So you want me to grow bigger boobs OK I'll try.

 

I was too shy to ask girls out...but none of them ever gave me a second glance so i'm assuming they all would have said no anyway, haha.

 

Yeah girls are mean. I had the same problem, I was very shy.

So I got mean too and to my utter amazement, for the first time in my life, girls started becoming attracted to me.

Go figure.

 

Yeah i know what you mean. Last year i vowed not to waste my time crushing on/dating/seeing a girl unless she was not only HOT but also had a great personality, because if either of those is missing then i'm just wasting my time...Well long story short, a few months after just partying and just living for the day i ended up turning a couple girls down but then one snared me just because i couldn't break her heart cuz she was so nice...

I hate how girls are like that. If they know you're interested they won't give you the time of day. But if you don't give a shit about them, then they might want you. It angers/disgusts me.

 

Your confidence improved or your projection of confidence improved. Girls do not like you because you are mean; they like you because you project confidence.

 

It's not that simple...You don't know how many parties i've went to and talked my ass off about myself confidently...Sometimes it helps, sometimes it hurts, but it NEVER works on its own.

Believe me, there's no definite strategy or whatever, and it's not worth wasting time thinking about. Basically do whatever makes you happy and if it gets you girls then ok, if it doesn't then oh well (basically my way of saying "be yourself" but trying to not sound cliche).

If you can truly be happy by yourself on your own you're gonna help yourself out a lot in life. I don't really care about girls anymore, but i still hate them for how they made me feel when i was younger.

Oh, and while i'm at it, there's no such thing as true love either...It's just a feeling of naive excitement.

 

ccc

 

Awwwww, thanks!:&

 

And mine grows narrower and narrower.

 

that happend to me, freaked me out

 

ill give you one peice of advice... guys that are shy and unsure of themselves slice their chances in half of successfully askign a girl out. MOST girls like a guy who knows what he wants, and girls like to be that thing he wants. we like to feel important, and an awkward hello doesnt really do that for us.

the cure? be confident, take 5 minutes and make yourself look good, and go out there with a smile impossible to turn down.

 

Guys can be just as mean as girls sometimes.

 

I know exacrtly how you feel yet i only ask out girls who i truely like , so i never asked any of them out... but i know exactly how it feels dude.

 

ya man I know wht you mean. Gurls used to turn me down and call me ugly all the time. I think its actually one of the issues that I deal with that makes me less talkative around people. It came to the point where I always thought fuck em and ditch em cuz theyll do it to you if you dont do it to them. Then everybody started gettin a bit mature and it got esier. But damn I still cant talk to gurls too long without losing track or not being able to carry on a conversation.