The way a lot of people talk it seem like they focus way to much on sex being penetration, which is definetly a good part of it. But i'd say a lot of problems of all types people have come from that they dont play enough. Its like people think playing is just for before you can go all the way. As i see it if you want sex to be fun, youve got to have fun that leads to sex, not hope for sex to lead to fun. I'm just saying people need to play more. Like ecspecialy really uptight and angry people, cause its not always that their not getting any, i think some of them are just too serious, so when they get some their too buisness like about it. I mean can you imagine how some of the angry people in here must be at sex? the ones who go "I DO GET LAID SHIT HEAD" well im betting they do but its probably like, WERE GONNA DO IT NOW! IM NAKED! WE ARE DOING IT! OK WE DID IT! and that kind of sex is why they come in all pissed off. My point is, if your gonna be mellow you gotta just stop being pissed off and be mellow somewhere, and if your gonna have sex, have fun, and 'playing is for pleasure', to quote master shake.
I agree too. That's why when I am with someone sexually, we usually spend hours on end naked together and playing around doing whatever comes naturally. I love to be oral, I love to lick and taste a girl's body, so I spend a good amount of time doing that. I'm also happy to receive that kind of pleasure from a girl being oral on me. I like to do a lot of touching and rubbing and massaging. It's fun to go from giving a foot massage (I love feet) to relaxing a girl that way, getting her horny by sucking on her toes and massaging her calves, and then moving on up to licking her pussy. At that point, I've gotten all I need to satisfy myself, so if we actually fuck, that's like a bonus! I think it's a great feeling to lie in a bed (or couch or floor) together with someone you love (or even just a fun-sex partner) naked, feeling like you have all the time in the world to enjoy the endless variety of things you can do together. And you don't even have to keep finding new ones, if you know of a slew of things that you already have done that provide enjoyment over and over... Also, I sincerely love making out with a girl, just kissing passionately while we hold each other close together. Kissing rules! Like Pablo said, "imperative" sex isn't any fun. I don't think I've ever had it, nor do I want to. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
Imperative sex is great! Of course if thats the only type of sex you have, that is bad. To seduce my wife and make her NEED to have me take her HARD and PASSIONATELY is one of the best feelings in the world. But that doesn't mean we don't take time out for all the sensual, slow, fun stuff too.
