Wealth or Love?

bullshit. You posted this thread knowing the sensitivity of you audience, so you went with it as a way to stir the pot.

Don't lie.

 

I didn't make this thread though.

 

Huh? If I won the lottery I'd have to go to the ER... my cock would be that hard

A person's financial situation plays a key role in relationships and 'love'. Real women need men that can offer them financial security and a secure future. Why invest in a cheese burger when you can get a quarter pounder deluxe? I'm not suggesting that a relationship is primarily a material thing but hey... if your a girl dating a guy thats got it going on right now... would you still want his babies if he fucked up and went down hill? What kind of life is that for you?

 

Then you have to worry if the girl's taking advantage of you.

I've been on the top of the mountain and when I thought a woman's love would help break my fall after finacial ruin I was pleasantly surprised to realize that was far from the case.

 

I don't want wealth for the relationship aspect of it. I just want the wealth. I'll still play "average" until I get to know a girl. I'm not one to pick up a girl that's interested in my money.

 

I want the wealth too... but when you get the wealth the game changes, and so does the girl. It's just like that.

 

Only if you put it out that you have wealth.

 

lmao...I should have been more clear...not exactly poverty level love, just someone who isn't stinking filthy rich, like Bill Gates...

 

well i choose love, things that you buy with money can end up leaving you pretty lonely when you've no one to share them with.
can't help thinking about that line in desparate housewives though
"i've done poor but happy and guess what....not that happy"
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For me being in love. I have family mambers who married each other for money. Their not happy and its clear to see!

 

For me being in love. I have family mambers who married each other for money. Their not happy and its clear to see! Its sad to look at their lifes because they have everything and I mean everything but love so they try to buy it! I told my self when I was around 10 that I would never end up like them. Id rather have someone who loves me for me not my money. Money is the root of all evil or at least for my family members! If you ever met one person who married for money you would honestly want to through up with things they say just for a bit of attention or compassion!

 

nahhhhhh not if the girl can hold her own and doesn't need your wealth see the thing is men like women who need them and men need to learn that with how society is today they need be be offereing up a hell of a lot more then picking up the monetary tabs because we are perfectly capable of doing that ourselves now...they need to be creative with their romance. The feminist movement put a lot more pressureon guys and thanks to it I have the best of both worlds don't have to buy dinner and have a great job...what a wonderful country to be a woman in.[/QUOTE]

 

at times I've had 2 jobs at same time and it was nice to go shopping without having to look at pricetags, but it was also annoying when I realized that my payday was also the day when my ex was the nicest to me...guess he figured if he was nice then that he would get my paycheck...hell it even worked for awhile.
Whenever he did odd jobs and got paid, I didn't get anything....in fact the more money he made, the dumber he got.

money VS love...I'd rather have love!

 

Love with a wealthy woman.

 

I would have to say money - I can always find someone to love on the side.

 

I'm the opposite in regards to this. Wealth turns me off a great deal. I hold a very bitter attitude about wealth (in the context of money). A woman who looks to me for wealth (even if I have it, which I intend to never do) will get nothing but grief from me. Likewise, I will never date a woman who places any kind of high value on money.

I realize that for most people, this is impractical, but I'm slowly arranging a lifestyle that requires barely any money at all, in which it wouldn't be an issue at that point.

 

[/QUOTE]ah! I like that...and it is so true, really. Most men tend to view us as the weaker sex still though, but ah, maybe they will figure it out...

 

Love for sure hands down but money can put such a burden on love and really tests a relationship..... can't I have both

 

studies have shown that the ideal situation for a loving relationship is where your needs are few and your money meets these needs with some for saving. ultra rich doesn't make anyone happy. too much to worry about losing.

 

I think ultra rich would make me happy.......In fact, I know it would.