Ok, get this. So my dad comes downstairs and basically tells me that my mom has been a hooker for the past year and a half, and a seperation is most likely going to take place. As if this wasn't bad enough, he's making me decide which parent to live with. And the one I choose not to live with, I will probably never see again, since my Dad believes that partial custody is not good for the 'family'. So I'm left in a pretty interesting position here. Can ya dig it?
Ok so say you do choose your mother. Does that mean your father will go away and never see you again because he thinks 'partial' custody is bad for the family? Of course he won't. Don't rush anything and be there for the both of them recognizing that there is a lot of pain going on there and some of the things that both of them might say as wrong as they sound are fueled by emotions and not how they truly feel. Best of luck man, feel free to hit me up with a pm if you need a someone to chat with or just a place to vent.
ouch. i'll send some positive vibes. though i doubt there's any way i could really help you, i hope things work out.
thats pretty bizare ......whats your mom got to say bout it ? and besides the two different stories youll get , you gotta think what situation will be less of a hinderance to you being able to do what you want to do . your in the horrible position {in the why i became an anarchist catagory} of being an autonomos sentient being whose legal status afor the next few years is non existant .yea laws suck ,ones about age ,ones about property well all laws suck !!whats gonna put you on a less restrictive path not whos the wronged party in a failed marrige should be your concern.....any divorce is more honest than the artificial force propped hell that legal matrimony seems to be
instead of choosing, you can do what Frank Abignale did in Catch Me if You Can, jump out the window and spend millions of dollars that you dont have over in Europe! Thatd be the way to live......haha just kidding, thought Id add some humor into this thread.
Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. Has your dad had anything to do with this "business" your mom has been running? If he just found out, you would probably be safer with him, sounds like mom has problems.......If he's been involved with it, I'd probably find some other relatives to live with. Anyway, you're 14, it's your choice. And your dad can't stop you from visiting your mom. In Ontario, you can leave home when you're 16.
Haha... blowing a bunch of cash in europe. Awesome.:H Ehh, it's been going on for a while, my dad has only known about it for a year and a half, it's probably been going on long before he found out. He's a real nice guy, he's been trying for this whole time to fix the marriage, but mom keeps doing it. So he's given her a final choice, either to stop hooking or break the marriage up. I don't think there's actually going to be a divorce, just a seperation. Whoever leaves, will just take thier stuff and go. Actually, I wrote the first post a few minutes after he told me, so I have no idea what my mom's side of the story is. I feel kinda weird now, knowing that my mom is a slut. Like Cartman's mom. Heh. If I had a choice, I'd probably move out, and I probably will once I turn 16. But that's a whole other issue, I won't be getting into that. Thanks for the love everyone Peace
sluts have sex for fun ....pros for $$ big difference .....im a slut myself ...everything is copacetic and all jobs suck {pardon the expression }
ah, man, that's the saddest thing i've ever heard of. i have to say, though, that i'd probably go with dad. there's a whole slew of scariness that goes along with a parent making an illegal living. yikes. i'm really sorry, man.
