prolonged masturbation...then sex?

any guys or gals here ever masturbated to the brink of orgasm a number of times then had sex later (either right after the last "almost" orgasm or later the same day) to finally have that orgasm? An ex-g/f of mine and I did this a few times and it was spectacular...

 

Totally. Yes, it is an awesome thing to build things up and then wow.

It's so hard for me to hold out long enough for that!

 

yes...but so worth it...I remember chatting with her online the first time we decided to do it...we were actually masturbating at the time and I suggested not coming while we wer doing it that night. I said let's stop short tonight and then do it again a couple of times the next day before we got together that afternoon...when we got together I had already gotten close 3 or 4 times that day and she had done somewher close to the same. We went to work on each other in a "69" and we wer both on the brink in just a couple minutes...then she pulled ou the vibe and I slid into her doggy style while she buzzed herself...I could barely move and after not more than a minute, she started moving as I felt her tighten up and BANG she started coming VERY hard...her contractions made me go off at almost exactly the same time...very, very intense

 

Wow, that is sexy! My hubby likes foreplay. If he had it his way, we'd do foreplay for hours before getting to the "O". I just get too wound up though.

 

well...how many "almosts" have you experienced before going on to finish? and was it worth it? (I bet it was)

 

Yes, it is definitely worth it. But I also like what happened last night. We went several rounds. I am wondering if it would have been even better if we would have stopped just short each time until the last one instead of going all the way each time?

Last night was awesome though.

 

just short? like within a few seconds of coming and then switched to something else for a while or stopping altogether? we have done such a thing, actually stopping for a couple of minutes then starting again. the amount of time you can go before you have to stop keeps getting shorter and shorter (love that)

 

Oh yeah. And there are times when I will get my Os, but he won't, and he'll give me oral, or even just snuggle up for a bit before starting again. He'll do this for a while before he finally gets off too. It always is great for me when this happens because I get off so easily, I get quite the workout!

 

are you rubbing or vibing yourself during sex? I always encourage my partners to do so because it makes things a lot more "controllable" when it comes to prolonging that "about-to-come-any-second" feeling...

 

No, I have never really felt a need to bring toys into it, but on occasion, especially lately, I have put my fingers to work just because it feels sexy and turns him on. I get off very easily, so I always get there before he does. So, he can pretty much be in control, and he has very good control of his O's too.

 

do you prefer him to keep moving slowly while you have yours and come after or do you like it when your orgasm seems to trigger his...for me, it is hard not to start coming when I feel her start pulsing...

 

Oh I love it when we can do it together! But typically I cum a few times before my big one and he will either cum with me then or after that. He's also gone down on me after my big one, but before he has had his, and then he will do it then.

 

your "big one"? hmmm...that's intriguing...you mean you have a few smaller orgasms first (just a few contractions with each) and then some major orgasmic event later?

 

Yes. I have several half orgasms, that are great on their own, but then I have one that curls my toes and rolls my eyes back in my head.

 

I am trying to imagine what that must feel like...might be like when I have almost started coming and stopped just in time...like I feel the "rush" of the orgasm start and stop...a couple of gentle throbs happen and I start back up again...when the "big" one comes for you, there are those great contractions that might actually put him over then?

 

Yeah, sometimes. It all depends. He's got very good control. Part of that I think is due to how long we've been together. I think he knows how I operate so he has gotten used to me and thus has better control over himself. I get contractions with the normal ones too, but they don't last as long. It is more of an acute orgasm, and the big one is more of a full body orgasm, if that makes any sense?

 

I have found that after I get used to a partner it is easier for me to "hold off" when she comes...but I rarely cab go too long after because I get so turned on feeling her come...maybe I'm really sensitive, too? what is your favorite position to have you big orgasms in, if it matters?...

 

Definitely me on top. I can't get too crazy in the missionary position because it hurts, but usually if I am on top I can control things. There's also one where I am on my back but my legs are turned so he slips in from the side. It's hard to explain it, but I really feel him and I can feel his balls smacking me on the leg. It just feels awesome. And he loves it too, so that turns me on as well.

 

aha...so being on top, you do most of the moving that causes your orgasms...do you keep moving when you come or find you stop while it's going on?

 

I feel it and when I am about halfway in then I lock up and he starts pumping me. I stop moving, but it feels awesome when he keeps moving. My whole body just tenses up and wham.