someone please help me... I just need to know that I am not alone or peoples opinions

Hi

I am putting this in the love section because I think that is what makes the difference...

For quite sometime when I masturbate and I think of a friend that I am inlove with, weather by myself or on the phone or computer with him or if he is involved in anyway... its amazing, I have tears in my eyes the whole time, I getoff about 10 times harder and being as turned on as he makes me literally has me on the line between extacy and torture. My clit feels like it's on fire and my insides throb.. I never knew this was possible, It feels beautiful and so right like the way it was meant to be.

I feel awful cuz all along I do have a bf who is not my friend and at the time that I met my bf I really thought iit was wonderful.... but it was never like this and I never planned on falling for my friend, but it just happened that way. The sad thing is I wouldnt leave my bf for my friend when he asked over a year ago because I couldnt believe that someone could love me the way he said... and I probably missed my chance with him.

But my actual question is can love really make a sexual response this much greater... has anyone ever had something like this happen? I have only had sex with 1 man so I dont really ahve a lot to go on here , thanks, love Alicia

 

oh, definately try to be with the second guy because love ABSOLUTELY makes a difference. it makes a frikkin world of a difference. a guy you don't love can do anything, and nothing will happen, but if you love him he can touch your shoulder and you'll feel like you're exploding into a million pieces.

 

prismatism... thanks hun, thank god someone knows what I mean... I've been having people tell me I'm nuts and that I'm imagining it... I don't know, maybe they never experienced it... at the risk of sounding cheesy, the way I feel about my friend is like they show love as being in tristan and isolde... I know that probably sounds rediculus and as "friends" are telling me imature... but I swear I eat, sleep and breathe him.

and I'm trying to be with my friend, but it might take a miracle.

thanks again, love Alicia

 

Population of the Earth is over 6 milliards, so it was enough hard to meet soul mate. A theory of probability shows that the more variant you will sort out the more precise result you will get. I sorted out many variants during long time. You can see results (3 photos) at http://www.mosaicluv.com/faq.shtml#4

Good luck.

 

hey its better to find out for sure if you do still have a chance rather than wonder all your life. The worst case senario is that the door is closed, but it sounds like you already envision that so it wouldn't sting that much and closure would make it somewhat cathartic.

 

Yes , Love does make it happen!

 

for the uninformed ..milliard is french =billion

 

To me it sounds like you are bored with your bf and feel lust for this other guy...lust, not love

 

being in love does make a difference

 

Oh yeah, love can make sexual responses like 163 times more intense!! I mean, have you ever noticed the instances where you're masturbating half-heartedly and the orgasm that follows tends to be lacking, or at the very least pleasant-but-mild? Same concept...well, sort of.

 

I'd agree with everyone else here, it definitely does. It's an entirely different experience, in fact. I don't have words to describe it, so I won't even bother. It's SO much more fulfilling, and the feelings you're left with immediately after the fact are one some of most sublime you can experience in this life.

If you love this other guy, definitely go for him! Live is too short and love is too wonderful to risk missing chances like that.