I just started dating this guy last week, but the thing is...he's never had a girlfriend before, I'm his first. He's not sure what to do, and me, I'm very experienced in the dating department. We have nothing planned for Valentine's Day, I mean just see each other at school...and that's it really. Should I be worried? We sometimes never talk at all.
buy some massage oil and get some time alone. Doesn't have to be any crazier than that, but it's a really fun thing to do. And talk to the guy if you're worried about communication! There are two people in the relationship after all, you're both equally responsible for keeping the lines of communication open
Thrust him into the world of relationships. He's a human, he'll adapt. You might be glad you did so later. We men are stupid beasts. We need a handler/trainer to turn us into finely adjusted performing men. But be kind about it!
lol ... well, it IS the truth after all. We're not all the big, strong, macho, Braveheart-esque guys who have the skill to woo you off your feet and into a chocolate heaven, you know ... most of us are deathly afraid of women! So give us some help, aye?
i had a relationship like that once. it sucked. unless you really like this guy, id say dont take on something you view more as a job than actually enjoying yourself. is there a reason he is so inexperienced? when it all comes down to it, hang out with him. there is no 'formula' to being in a relationship. so have fun, be nice, and only laugh at his social handicapped when hes looking the other way.
Ha ha ha, you're only three years older, dude! Being 19 doesn't make you some of kind of relationship guru . And what she said was really fantastic advice, especially coming from someone so young. A lot of people around her age aren't mature enough to be able to relax and take it easy in a relationship. I say good for you, dietcoketree!
And YOU'RE 19. Note the apostrophe. Don't think that you're some kind of demigod either. I don't claim to be myself, that's for sure, but -- your fly is down, and your arrogance is showing.
Ahhhh, yes, I see. After finding your psyche devoid of intelligent or relevant retorts, your only recourse is to launch ad hominem attacks on unrelated subjects to draw attention from your own embarassment. Very good show, sir! Obviously, your ability to divine such intimate information from nothing but a jpeg is rather astounding. Perhaps you should consider a career in psychic profiling, or becoming the next Uri Gellar. There's an opening for that, you know. You'd be a shoe-in. :H
See? This is what happens when you women don't show us enough love, lmao ... (It's all your fault!! )
what a silly thing to say... there are plenty of girls (myself included) who think that capn danger is cuter than you on a purely exterior, aesthetic level. Personality wise I got no clue, but... based solely on looks I'd go for him before you anywho, enough with this silliness, back to helping out the OP if we can
WOW... im 16, not retarded. and thanks, 'cap'n danger'... i may not know that wonders of the world but i DO know that being in a relationship shouldnt be a chore, and thats all i was trying to say. sounds like your a bit insecure if your not alright with that mr jester...
Agreed, we've all had our fun and thrown our barbs around! Moving on... Although V-day has passed, here is my 2 cents. Well, it might be good for him if you just focus on taking it easy- on being friends, getting to know each other, and having fun together. It's also good to have very few expectations when you begin dating- those things come naturally later on. So, go on fun dates, talk to each other a lot, and just focus on enjoying each other's company and having a good time. All will work out as it should.
ive been in 3. now really i understand your thinking of like "whats a 16 year old REALLY know" but i mean, ive probably been through more than you might think. this thing chat thing is sweeeeeeeeet.
i dont claim to know a ton about them, because i dont. all i said was that it shouldbt be a chore or a job that you dread. i think any NORMAL person would agree with me on that.
Hehe, yup...I think insanejester is a little sexually frustrated... Maybe you should all just kiss and make up... And btw, I think Capn Danger is much easier on the eyes than insanejester, but that's just my opinion.
