Last weekend I finally told (some of)my friends that I'm a bisexual. They were really calm about it, no drama or anything, and it felt like a huge weight off my back. One of them, I was telling about three people, was totally silent, which kinda worried me but he hasn't really been treating me any different, so I'm assuming he's okay with it (he's very untalkative and shy, though, so it's hard to tell). Notice the "some of", though...i still need to tell the rest of my friends but they're a little harder...like one of them is a really hardcore catholic, so I don't quite no how he'd react to it. Anyway, I just thought I'd share with you guys. It feels nice knowing there are people who accept you for who you are. Its a wonderful gift having this forum, and I would just like to thank everyone for their advice to me and to everyone when we have problems.
I'm glad it's gone well so far. Good luck. Make sure, before you tell people, that they're really people that you want to tell, that you don't mind knowing. I've told about six of my friends so far that I'm bisexual. 3 guys and 3 girls. They've all been ok with it. A couple of my best friends, who happen to be guys, don't know, and for some reason, I just don't really feel like telling them. I mean I know they'd be accepting and all, but it might become weird, because I sleep over at their houses a lot and they might be less inclined to have me do that because I don't even know, it's just something that crossed my mind. Plus I don't feel the need to tell them right away anyway. I must agree with you, it's a gift having this forum, hearing everyone's experiences and getting advice. It's really helped me out. So thanks to all you regulars here.
The problem with 'coming out' partially is that some people know and the others do not. And people talk, no matter what. Soon, guys you originally excluded from the 'list' of the knowing learn about your inclinations down the grapewine and start feeling that they have been treated like a second class friends, whereas you should have told them. (I mean you are doing a lot of sleepovers at their places, rite?) And so, the trouble starts brewing. There is nothing wrong with coming out. But once you go there, you ought to have your strategy and your tactics completely figured out. When you come to think about it, how many people really ought to know what's going on behind the doors of your bedroom? (Just a question) KD
I told all my close friends (6 of them, including guys and gals). They are so kool. We even became closer friends. They are all str8. When im down, or have some gay deal to deal with, they listen and give me advices. I've never found my partner, but I have great friends.
dont let antigay fool you, look at his other hundreds of stupid, pointless posts that no one gives a fuck about, He does not accept you for who you are, we do, antigay is the enemy whether his softspot is for you or not. Most homophobes like this fucking douchebag are really the guys who spend the nights with cocks in their throats. like this fucking pussy probably does! yay
