need a little info on female ejaculation

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by HappyVal, Jun 13, 2004.

  1. HappyVal

    HappyVal Member

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    ok, lately, when I masterbate with a vibrator, during the second or third orgasm I ejaculate. Afterwards I feel extremely satisfied and totally drained of energy. I've never heard of a woman ejaculating from clitoral stimulation. Can someone tell me if this is normal?
     
  2. kitty fabulous

    kitty fabulous smoked tofu

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    clitoral stimulation can be wonderful, but quite frankly the reason why i prefer penetration, even for masturbation, has everything to do with female ejaculation and the g-spot. the reason why you don't ejaculate during a clitoral orgasm is because female ejaculation is caused by stimulation of the g-spot, which is an area of sensitive, spongy tissue on the inside front wall of the vagina. when firmly stimulated, (curved vibrators are the next best thing to a man who knows the right way to move) extremely intense orgasms will occur, with "ejaculation" of a liquid that is "thicker and slicker than urine" during the most intense waves of orgasm.

    for masturbation, vibrators and dildoes that are slightly curved at the end offer the best g-spot stimulation. with a partner, "doggie style" and "cowgirl" (woman on top) or "reverse cowgirl" (woman on top facing away from the man) are usually preferred. kegel exercises (gripping with the vaginal muscles) will help strengthen the muscles in the vaginal wall and increase pleasure for both partners during penetration. that little "hug" inside drives men wild!

    btw, there are a lot of myths about the g-spot & female ejaculation. it's not abnormal, it's a natural part of women's pleasure that desreves to be acknowledged and celebrated. i wouldn't make yourself nervous with any expactations beyond getting wet & feeling wonderful though. a few dumbass guys who have seen stupid pornos might stupidly expect gushing fountains of liquid. in actuality, female ejaculation usually only releases about a teaspoon or two of liquid - although in the intensity of the sex act, it may seem like a lot more. don't ever let a man pressure you about "ejaculating better" or "right". men like that don't deserve your sexual energy, anyway. remember, female ejaculation is all about your pleasure, not his. (although like any ogasm it's best if it's truly shared.)

    i know good vibrations has published a guide to the g-spot & female ejaculation. why not check out their site at http://www.goodvibes.com ? there's a lot of information about female sexuality in general there. and just for fun, check out the antique vibrator museum! ;)
     
  3. HappyVal

    HappyVal Member

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    thank you for the info, but i ejaculate during clitoral stimulation, not penetration, and it's only been happening for the past month or so.
     
  4. cbrmale

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    The only females who have ejaculated with me have ejaculated during a combination of clitoral and g-spot stimulation.

    However, it is my understanding that it is a combination of the intensity of stimulation and the willingness of you to let yourself go and ejaculate rather than where.

    I have seen a couple of instructional film clips of girls masturabating to ejaculation. Two with fingers on the clitoris and one with a vibrator on the clitoris.
     
  5. moonlightdelerium

    moonlightdelerium Senior Member

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    What happens with me lately is it takes me about 45 minutes or so of masterbating with a vibrator until I come but when I do I ejaculate the tiniest littlest bit of liquid and the actual hole of my vagina becomes VERY tight and VERY small, to the point where I can't even stick my pinky inside. This has been happening for the past two weeks or so but they are just the BEST orgasms EVER!
     
  6. moonlightdelerium

    moonlightdelerium Senior Member

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    OMG, HappyVal, we have the same birthday and we both live in the Maritimes!!! Thats bloody crazy!!! PM me or something!
     
  7. cherryiceangel

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    I am going to just post my female ejaculation question here instead of starting a new thread..so if it seems a bit off topic, sorry.

    Okay when my new boyfriend and I have sex I almost always "ejaculate". This never really happened with any other partners,I mean if we were trying it was easy to do but it never naturally occured. This boyfriend of mine does have a wider penis than my other partners and I think it might be what is causing this to happen. I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas as to how we could go about preventing this.

    Just to make this clear, I want to stop them, it just gets a bit too messy for some of our locations, lol, so its not him wanting me to stop (cause believe me he likes it, lol).
     
  8. cbrmale

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    Cherryiceangel,

    Men love to turn women on. And to turn a woman on so that she ejaculates during intercourse would be awesome. No wonder your boyfriend doesn't want to stop.

    You are probably right about the wider penis. Size does matter, everything else being equal. And a girl can ejaculate through any stimulation, not just g-spot. You may be more emotionally connected, and that may help.

    I don't think you should try to stop ejaculation. The orgasms should feel more intense. You can correct me on that. In any case, your boyfriend may feel disappointed that something has changed. Think laterally and have a towel ready or something.

    Cbrmale
     
  9. Audrey70

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    Hello,

    I'm with my boyfriend for a year.I've experienced my first
    ejaculation about some month ago. It was a great sensation
    with several short squirting and totally satisfaction. First I was
    a bit emberrased and I wanted to keep it. But I discussed it
    with my boyfriend and he said that he was turned on watching
    my orgasm.
    I'd be interested in your experiences and stories about female
    ejaculation. Feel free to contact me.

    Adrien
     
  10. lespaulman83

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    i dunno if i shoulda made another thread for this or not but it seems the rite place. girls: have you ever like squited when you cummed? i've seen in pornos they have a catagory for it & i was just wondering if anyone here has done it or does it.
     

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