Well, when my parents were married, I never once heard them or caught them having sex. They rarely even slept in the same room together. But when my parents divorced, my mom became involved with various men and I would at times hear them. It made me so sick, I can't even begin to tell you how disgusted and pissed off it made me. Here was a woman who was forever demonizing sex, who only said it was acceptable to have sex if you were married, and what was she doing? Freshly divorced and screwing with her children nearby. Why should I have been happy for her? Every man she was involved with was married, abused her, lied to her, made promises that never happened. *ahem* Sorry for the rant. I don't know what your situation is, but that was mine.
Your mother is Human being too, she is a woman in her own right. It would be nice if you could be happy for her, and show her some respect, its her house and she has deidcated her life to raising you and looking after you, why would you want to deny her the most natural, beautiful, amazing thing in the world?
I heard my mum and dad once - damn that was nasty - still makes me cringe - but however i feel i know they are just gonna do it if i like it or not (lol which ones the parent) i suggest you be adult about it and if it bothers you that much speak to your mum and just say you dont wanna hear that. I surpose to you your mum has been sharing a bed with this man for a while and thats all they did - but chance's are she has been having a good old banging for quite a while - im sure when you are her age your views on this will be totally different - maybe even try not getting up so early - oir get up earlier and go out.
I really dont undertand why everyone has such a problem with this? MOTHERS ARE PEOPLE TOO YOU KNOW!!!
If you have a filthy, unmoralistic mind, you can accept the fact that people of all shapes, sizes and ages have sex, a lot of filthy dirty sweaty sex, and you can block it out your head because it doesn't mean anything
Once I moved down to my basement, I started hearing my parents going at it all the time. At first I sort of walked around in a daze, kind of traumatized. Now I put on headphones...and I'm still kind of traumatized. The way I see it is everyone has sex, and they're always in a better mood the next morning.
Ask your mom how she'd like it if she had to hear you having loud sex all the time when she was home.... I'm sick of everyone saying "mothers are people too!" Just because she's a mother doesn't mean she doesn't have to respect her children. Just to point this out, as i said, i'm sure her mother wouldn't want to hear her daughter having sex in the house, so she should treat people how she wants to be treated! haha, but seriously.
The household I grew up in is not what most would consider "traditional". Before I was born my mother was a stripper, she stopped when I was born (her only child) for obvious reasons. But I think she struggled with breaking the ties with the people and drugs of that time, honest to goodness story, Ive walked in on my mom having sex with "partners" more than once not having a father around. Traumatizing? Probably not, everyone has sex, walking in on her drunk on her birthday orally....pleasing two men of whom Id never seen...a little more so. But my mother and I have a very special bond and I support what makes her happy. And I was 18 at the time so it wasnt so bad.
ok, i AM the mom...i have sex...we have kids in the next room. i try not to make a lot of noise, and fortunately the walls are thick...i understand being a bit flipped out, but she does have the right to a sex life, at the same time. just leave the house for a bit, get some earplugs, whatever... i walked in on my parents once...they weren't fucking, my mom had my dad's dick in her mouth. i had come into their room to get some toothpaste from their bathroom cause they were out...lol...i said...'just came...to get some toothpaste...' and slowly backed out of the room. none of us ever said a WORD about it. i was grossed out but i still thought it was funny...still do.