Ok everyone, here's my situation: I am a loner. I have no friends, outside my family. I dont know anyone I can just call up and go out with. It's not that I'm a weird guy, I just have no social life AT ALL! So, how can I possibly have sex???? I mean, I always hear of people meeting in public for the first time, getting to talking, then, BOOM! They're doing it! How can I do that? How do you go out and find a person who wants sex as much as you?
Make friends dude. It seems obvious to me. You're not going to get any sex if you can't even maintain a friendship. Start at the start. How old are you anyway....? You sound pretty young.
So you just want sex with no attachments, right? You could have that in a friends-with-benefits relationship. There's also plenty of websites where you can "Find Singles in Your Area!" who just want sex. Well, you see, around my neck of the woods we have these nice, (somewhat) young, maybe drug/alcohol-addicted women who come out at night in their best skimpy attire and hang around street corners. We call 'em, in the politest way I can think of, prostitutes. Sure, you need to pay them and should put on a rubber to make sure this nice lady doesn't get out of buisness (and so you don't end up with some unknown disease if they carry any), but hey! At least they want it as much as you do, right? Just go down town and you'll be sure to find someone.
Woa, I didn't mean prostitutes! I'd never have anything to do with stuff like that! I just meant other normal people. (Man, I sounded really dumb in that post! I really need to eleborate more the first time!) Anyway, I will wait until the right girl comes along to have a sexual relationship. Sex without love is not sex worth having, in my opinion. You see, I live in a very small town and I go to a small college where there's no real 'campus life'. But, I do plan to go to a huge college back east a year from now, so hopefully then my social life will improve! But it just seems to me that all single people have one steamy sexual encounter at least once. Like when a guy meets a girl in a bookstore and they get so hot for eachother they just run home and do it! Am I out of touch with reality?
^^^Id say that most people have not had someone they just met and dragged out of the magazine isle to fuck rotten. More often, people find people at bars and get drunk and have sex and...then they regret it. If you want sex WITH love, Id say your best bet is to work on friendship first. Sex comes from being social and confident. Peace
(sigh) Never mind. I'm just looking forward to the right relationship to begin, like any other human being.
All I'm saying is that I get the impression that sex happens to everybody even before they get into their very first 'major' relationship. Not with prostitutes or picking up complete strangers, but with someone you meet under some circumstance and a relationship develops driven by sexual desire. It just seems to me this happens to a lot of people, and I wonder what are the odds of it happening in small towns as well as large ones.
