I think all people, on the whole in general, are not beautiful in certain ways but the concept of them is. Other than that, yeah, it is an ignorant word... but it doesn't mean much... if you don't let stupidity hurt you...
a slut is this girl in my grade. she fucked 3 guys in the back of a car in like a half hour. one guy gets done & another gets started.
they call me a slut because I have big black knee-high boots and wear cleavage on occasion... FUCK THEM!! AHHH! oh, sorry... erupting rage. It's a totally unnessacary label, and none of the people who call me slut even know me. if they did they'd know I am a virgin oh well. I don't take it as that bad of an insult.
I will never call a womyn: slut, bitch, or hoe. No matter what they do. I will turn to the men that mentally and physically raped them and blame them. I will put my arms around her and comfort her and hold her, breast to breast. Because that is how hugs are given. Though love and understanding.
On a road trip my mom and I took a couple of years ago she told me that she thought a slut was someone who had sex with more than three people in a month. She could have been a slut for all I know but that was her definition. Me, I consider a slut to be someone who has sex for nothing to gain, only to destroy. Like for instance you can sleep with a bunch of people in a short amount of time (unlike my mom's thinking) and just be in love with sex and you still respect the people you are having relations with. On the other hand, if you set out to go sleep with somone's partner as revenge for something then that's when I will consider you a slut because you're not doing anything good for yourself or anyone else for that matter. On a different slut level, something my family is dealing with head on is this. My step-sister is gay and as a Christian I will never respect her lifestyle choice because it clashes with my own beliefs. I don't love her any less and neither does anyone else in her family (in fact I've hated her all my life so nothing's really changed for me). It's hard though for my parents to not see her as a slut for it because they won't accept her life choice either and are more behind the times when it comes to that stuff. They just figure she's done all the whoring she wants to do with guys so now she's hitting up girls. That may not be entirely true but that's how they look at her now, as just a slut, not a lesbian.
I'm a slut for rock & roll. AND I'M PROUD OF IT! there I feel way better now. I guess I'm a little bit slutty. If a guy plays a groovy guitar, let's just say I won't need any coaxing. Luckily for my parents, I haven't found any of those around here, so I'm a virgin. who cares if they call us sluts? nobody's really a slut. even if they are i love them anyways!
Cailtin, why it is, I have yet to understand, for I do not know you well. But, you never seace to amaze me. You are elegent, my dear.
those are some of the meanest words I have ever read, asshole. Do you know how much you're hurting your step sister thinking and believing that? Grow up, it's not the fucking middle ages man. And Nathan, I love you man.