Valentines plans?

That's hot...... :H

 

Yeah things might be different there. Or even just with the social class of people you usually see.

~Peace

 

Two different worlds. I'm not worried about being macho and manly dominant. Not saying they are necessarily, but you're right, things are definitely different.

 

see I like that I don't want an 'equal' relationship nor do I want a parental relationship. I want a woman-man relatinship and the last time I felt a man I was significantly weaker then them lol. I have no issues with my femininity I embrace it and am much more content when I am allowed to be the submissive one in a relationship.

 

Haha..... Thanks Chaos.....
I appreciate that kind of respect, seriously.

~Peace

 

And there's something wrong with showing your thanks and desire for someone through sexual favours? Fuck that..

 

Oh I was only kidding......, no there's nothing wrong with expressing affection and desire and those things through sex, at all. I was only laughing because the way she said it was , I don't pay for things but I give him sex later. Sounds an awful lot like those shortskirt ladies you see hangin streetcorners in the dodgy downtown late at night... no?
Was a joke, anyway..,


~Peace

 

hah yes if I'm in a comitted monogamus relatiomship I have no problem showing somone a good time in bed for showing me a good time outta bed. I'll cook them dinner too or do other nice things but lets face it nothing beats a blow job for gratitude...and in saying this I've only given 3 men blowjobs in my entire life...they're very private and personal to me I have to be sprung on somone to go down on them deeply in love and have a lot of passion.

 

I love ya girl and I would buy you dinner AND give you a blowjob if you had a thingie lol(;

 

IMO, It can go both ways. You can show that you're independant and don't need to be taken care of, but you want a dominant man all at the same time. I want a girl that will let me take care of her, but not one that needs me to, if that makes sense.

 

Now that statement cannot be rubuttaled. Period. Ask any man.

 

makes perfect sense, well to me atleast...i pretty much want a similar thing...

 

Like I said whodi, "We run this"

 

haha damn straight

 

Yeah that makes sense. Actually like lynsey said I'm also submissive in relationships. Girls are girls and the way we are in love is different from the way boys are. Tenderness and quietly protective. Still, I don't need a boy. But, I want him, you understand.

Without him I can live just as well, won't starve and won't live on the streets.
But I want to be with him, and with him I feel tender-submissive, feminine, and so on.... doesn't mean my independence dissolves.



I like your posts Chaos, you sound like a cool guy.

 

yep stroke my hair until I fall asleep and tell me stories of your fondest emmories=blowjob, breakfast with long conversations, so long where they just end up leaving the pot of coffee and pitcher of water on your table=blowjob, nice dinner and romantic walk on the beach=blowjob. pretty simple and yeah a hell of a lot better then chipping in 10 or 20 bucks for the check and not being able to say thank you and give the kiss on the cheek and hug and that just sucks and makes me feel very unwomanly

 

I appreciate the comment. Just a fair warning though, I'm a pretty opinionated asshole..... An acquired taste really....... People love me or hate me or don't know which they prefer.... but there's no indifference when it comes to me.

 

I'll keep it in mind.

 

The only thing I don't agree with is the check thing if I don't know she'd pick it up if I couldn't. Like I said, I have to see the independent side of a girl befor I will be the one she depends on. After that, it's all gravy baby.

 

*happy dance*

It's actually pretty funny... I often end up paying for supper when I'm out with a girlfriend... but they buy me drinks next time we're at the bar together, or pay for our movie tickets... it all balances out. I just feel bad if someone is paying for -everything- -all- the time, especially if they don't have a job at that moment or aren't working very much or something like that

Like I said... I'll steal the receipt/cheque if I feel like the guy has been paying for too much lately, bwahaha. I will admit that paying for food without complaint, especially if you buy my friends supper or lunch too, makes me melt. It's all gentlemanly and cute