I could use some opinions on this.

Flirting at work is so much fun, you lucky devil.

 

Not to be forward but if you yourself are an "obvious" gay, you know very feminine and stuff he probably can tell and is interested, but if you are in the closet and are very much like a straight guy on the outward appearance maybe he doesnt know and thinks your just joking. Im in the very same predicament but no one would ever assume I like guys, i dont know, Im not looking for a relationship at all I just want to fuck around but, I think THAT might be even harder to accomplish. I cant really approach him, (even though he is kind of flirty just like you have described) and ask if I can suck his cock.

 

I thought of that.I'm "straight"acting,so is he.I was totally attracted to him from the second i saw him,but we hit it off from day one as friends.He seems to speak his mind at work on alot of things,and he's fun to be with.HE'S the one that started it all,and i n the beginning,i thought it was him joking around,so i just went along.But,when i say"hey Matt,that looks like shit"(joking),he replies"blow me"....."no really".I say"I'll help you out with that whenever you want",and that gets a smile from him.He says"well you do owe me for doing your work"(he put some stuff out on the shelves for me),we laugh a bit,and i say"o.k.,i owe u one then".Later,i walk by,and say "i gotta run,but can you make sure the juice gets stocked before you go" he says "sure,but i guess you owe me 2 now"with a grin.I say "2's no problem at all",then looks at me and says"i don't know if i can handle 2 in the same day",totally serious.That's what KILLS me!He's back a day early ,so i'll see him tomorrow(god i can't wait).I shall be back on tomorrow night with some details;juicy ones i hope

 

yea keep us posted!

 

good luck, sounds like hes a winner your lucky you have someone to have some fun with!

 

This all sounds weirdly familiar. But I don't want to jinx it, so I'll tell you why later.

 

Well,just got home from work.I promised you guys I'd keep you up to date,but sadly,nothing to report.He was supposed to be in around noon.I was looking around for him,but no sign of Matt.After a while I went up to my boss and asked where he was.He decided not to drive here from school today cause they're getting 6-10" up there(snow that is)So,i have another week i guess to ponder and fantasize,oh well.BTW SelfControl,do tell.

 

that better be 10 inches of SNOW hes getting up there!!! wouldnt wanna find out hes what you want but someone beat you to the punch!

 

LOL,well I hope it's snow.But,I've got 6.5" here for him

 

hmm now i know why this guy grab mine.

 

Well, it sounds a lot like a guy I met this year at uni. We just flirted pretty much the whole time, even after we'd established that I was gay and he wasn't. Cleared the air a bit, and then one night he stayed over at my place and we kinda... well, I say we, basically I started kissing him and he just kinda let me. I figure it was just a case of him not being arsed to do anything about it. My dad phoned before anything good happened (literally just before :$), but we were both happy that it happened and stayed friendly afterwards.

I guess why I'm bringing this up is: I'd say it's not clear cut that he is gay, but I doubt very strongly that if you tried it on with him he would get upset, as long as he didn't feel he was being forced into anything. If you let him be "the man" I can't see why it shouldn't work out.

 

Yeah,I've basically been following his lead,and I'll continue to do that.I'm gonna see where he goes with this.I'm just gonna keep my eyes and my options open for now.

 

Well, if you want my advice, keep it light. Resist the urge to try and get him drunk, even (especially) if you're getting drunk with him. It'll just put his guard up. Play it cool and take up any opportunity to get together that arises. Then either pick your moment or wait for him to pick his. There'll be a point where it'll just feel right to do the necessary.

How close are you, as friends?

 

I think you should do something more funny, once you seem him again...don't be exactly direct.

Give him a gay gag gift of some kinda, for example... throw a rubber at him, and say maybe we can use that later if your free? and he'll probabaly laugh and say Yeah, sure thing. Then say "I mean for real", and leave it like that.

Tease the hell out of him.

 

double post...

 

Well,SelfControl as far as friends all I can say is I can't remember a time when I've totally hit it off with someone so well from the first day I've met them.We just clicked.It's wierd.Like I said,we haven't hung out,but everytime we work together,we just get along really well.It seems like we've known each other for years we get on so well.Magicsafoot;we tease each other all the time with sexually related comments,but I like your idea!

 

Had a similar thing with that guy, actually. Everyone at uni thought we were dating and had known each other for ages. He did way more to encourage that than I did.

I guess why I brought it up is to say: just carry on as you are. Don't risk scaring him by trying too hard to initiate something. If you do, make sure you do it somewhere private where he'll feel comfortable with it.

 

Well,next time he makes a remark I think I'll respond with a simple"anytime,anywhere",and leave it at that.

 

Hey catch him naked or something or just go with it. Or ask someone else if he's gay

 

I don't know any of his friends,so that's out.But the naked situation would be interesting,to say the least