Question about Parents, And Step Sister...

Ok, here's my situation... My parents got divorced back in november of 2003 and they both went their seperate ways... My Mom has decided to never get married again but my Dad has moved on and found someone else. Well I finally decided to visit my dad since he has moved to arizona 7 months ago... Well I just met my step sister for the first time and I think shes great. She has the Personality, Looks, and Body. We get along really well, Infact we just spent 6 hours lastnight in the pool until sunrise talking.

Now, I really like her and I think she likes me... I know for a fact she thinks im hot because my brother has lived in arizona for 7 months and told me that she thinks I'm really hot. But here comes my problem...

Shes really not my stepsister yet.. My dad is engaged to her mom and they will be getting married really soon and she will become my stepsister... Would it be wrong of me to have a relationship with my stepsister? I mean were not related by blood at all.

I would appreciate any advice anyone has to offer me. peace

 

Sex - if she's down, go for it. That is of course if you are capable of having sex without falling in love.

Relationship - bad idea. That would be really messy. very bad idea.

 

A friend once dated a girl who was the daughter of his dad's girlfriend. They dated for about a year, and then his dad and her mom got married. When the parents found about the kids, my friend's dad disowned him and kicked him out. My friend continued dating his new stepsister, and eventually they got engaged, and will be married soon. However, both families are very disgruntled, and I don't anybody will be coming to the wedding.

 

maybe you should have a talk with your dad about it? If you two moved out of your parents house then they wouldnt have to see it all the time and they may be more relaxed about it.

Depends on how your parents are.

But do think about it long and hard before you act. No pun intended.

 

Im gonna have my Sister-Inlaw who is also in town find out if my future step sister likes me. If she does, I may talk to my dad about it, if he doesnt care.. I'll most likly go for it, Hell... Who am I kidding, I'm probably gonna go for it with or without his permission.

 

My greatgrandpa and greatgrandma are stepbrother and sister.

They were living in the same house and my greatgrandpa took gram out for a a date, they came home in his car and he asked,"so you're my girl now, right?" and she said,"yeah"

they shared a room and shit too... it's kinda wierd.

 

id say do what ever you want. i know that if it were my parents, it wouldnt fly well but they are quite intolerant of many things. i dont think its right that someone should be limited in their relationships because it doesnt settle well with others. i have a great dislike for divorce mainly because in the years after my parents divorced (i was 8 then) ive found out that my parents married more out of convinence, and not for love. im a romatic myself so i feel this is wrong and it bothers me that my parents even got married to begin with. i think being divorced your parents have no right to tell you what relationships you can and cant have.


peace, bob

 

I'd act on it. You don't find a good relationship every day. I hope your dad and step-mom-to-be would be happy for you, rather than kind of pissed or something. Best of luck.