Okay, I like this girl at my school and everything, but she has a boyfriend. My friend also likes her, but he likes another girl also. He decided to get the girl he liked a present for valentines day. I wasn't going to get anything for the girl I like, but he told me that she asked him if I liked her and she asked if I was getting her anything. Now I feel kind bad and I wanna get something for her, probably flowers or something, but I don't know if I should. My friend says not to, but I can't tell if he means it, or if he's only saying it because he likes her too. I don't care that she has a boyfriend, he's one grade below me so I'm not like afraid of him or anything. I just wanna know, should I get her something? and if so, maybe some suggestions on what I could get her...
How about a valentine? Doesn't have to be anything fancy, just a "hey I was thinkin' about you, chica" type of thing.
well, I don;t wanna give jut a note, because my friend is giving a girl flowers in a vase full of hershey kisses..... and no one's actually adressed the subject of if I should even bother or not since she has a bf..
If she has a boyfriend, I'd say do NOT get her a Valentine's gift. Stick with the single chicks. If she ditches her boyfriend later, then you're free to pursue her... but for the time being, she's involved with someone, and therefore out of reach. It would be uncool. Sorry!! Lol... ~Peace
Really, you made it sound like she would like to recieve a gift from you, seeing how she was asking your friend about it (unless she was asking because she is worried that you might get her a gift and she is uncomfortable about that). Anyways, assuming she wouldn't mind getting a gift from you, go right ahead! Get her something thoughtful, but without any romantic connotations- no real valentines-day sort of gifts. Get her the sort of present you would get her any other day of the year- something you know she will like to have (think hobbies, interests, etc), and would buy for herself. Also, it's definitely best to sign the tag on the gift with something that makes it clear that the gift is meant as a lcasual, friendly gesture, since she is already involved with a guy. Do that and all should go smoothly. Good luck!
Im gonna disregard the 21 inch dildo, were 13, it be perverted if I did that...and I think I am not going to get her something, because my friend left out one tiny detail, he said that when she asked if I was getting her a gift, he said "Probably not." (he's an ass.) and he said she gave a sigh of relief or something along those lines..
Aw.... well there are plenty of other girls out there, and you sound like a nice kid, ...... Happy Valentine's Day dude *hug* ~Peace
Thanks, happy valentines day to you also. I'm not goign to just stop liking her though, because 1. I think she's having problems with her bf, and 2. I still like her, and my friend made it sound like it wasn't a sign of relief in a bad way, just more that she thought it'd be akward..
start out like you mean to go on...that means not stabbing some poor schlub in the back to steal his lady. these are the years that define you. don't be a dick. anyway, who'd want a girl who can be so easily stolen? be a man of honor, for fuck's sake. there's so few honorable people left.
Do you believe your friend? Honestly dude, if you want to give the girl something do it. Let her know you're thinking about her. But like I and the Capn' said, just not flowers or candy or anything like that, it's not a competition and women don't dig that stuff anyways. It doesn't matter if she's seeing somone or not. They're not married and there's nothing unethical or uncool about a little gift. In fact I personally find it offensive when people say things about "stealing" other peoples girlfriends (or boyfriends for that matter). To call it "theft" is highly improper and shows alot about their views. People are not property and she doesn't belong to the 'boyfriend' or anyone. She can make her own decisions. If she can't appreciate your gesture for what it is than that's her problem and she's not the kind of girl you'd want to be with anyways. There's plenty of other girls man and you've nothing to loose by showing your feelings and taking no crap for it. The sooner you learn that the better, trust me.
